Does he really like you? You’ve been dating each other for a while. You like it, love it and are handsome and you are completely in the clouds! But you want to know for sure, you don’t want to waste valuable time on a man who doesn’t go all the way for you. You ask him, but maybe he is not a talker or you are not sure if he means what he says.
Does he really like you?
We have listed 13 signals that you can pay attention to! Signals that are hard to miss and that show that he is serious about your relationship! Does he really like you?
1. He responds quickly
You send him a message and before you have put away your phone, he has already answered. With a personal message, with the message that he misses you and with the precise coordinates where he is at that moment and with whom. In case you want to come to him.
2. He listens to you
He takes the time to really listen to you. Does he even listen to you during a long complaining serenade about those annoying colleagues of yours? Then you know it’s right. Men don’t like complaining women, but your friend understands that you do that because you trust him. If he really likes you, he will take the trouble!
3. He is reliable
Ok, it sounds boring and not very sexy. But he keeps his promises and comes to your dates on time. Well, maybe 10 minutes late, but we count that well. You can count on him, he will be there if you need him. He helps you by standing behind you when you need support, standing next to you when you need a teammate and standing before you when you need protection.
4. He watches the details
He gets to know you well and knows what you like and don’t like. He pays attention to the details, knows what makes you happy: those whipped milk on your cappuccino, sniffed exactly twice after the alarm went off or sitting next to each other on the terrace instead of facing each other. If he really likes you, he will remember all of this meticulously!
5. He is patient
It takes patience to get to know all those details of each other. But also be patient if you have conflicting traits or if you don’t think the same about anything. Patience to adapt and stay nice, to have useful discussions. If he always seems to be understanding and calm, it may feel different to him. But then he does his best to remain patient and apparently he is good at it.
6. He is open to new experiences
If he really cares about you and your happiness, then he likes to do, eat, see, listen, feel and experience that makes you happy. By sharing many experiences, he gets to know you better and better. Of course, you want it the other way around and you want to (almost) live each other’s lives to understand each other. After a while, your bond will become so strong that you only need one glance, but you are still building that up.
7. He is honest
If he respects you, he is honest with you. Even if you disagree about something. If he does not avoid confrontation but does it in a way that he does not hurt your feelings (he hates to see you upset), then he finds your relationship important. He would like to resolve the issue as quickly as possible. At the same time, he is also honest if he has made a mistake and is not afraid to apologize.
8. He surprises you
You suddenly find a sweet letter from him, a message on your phone or a small gift. It doesn’t have to be big. Just some sweet, personal, romantic words that make you happy or a little something that you had said you liked so much. Enjoy the small things. When you look back later you realize that those were actually the big things in life!
9. He always likes you
Even if you wear your pajamas, your old sweatpants or your bear slippers. Even if you wake up in the morning without makeup. Even if you have just exercised, are sweaty and your hair does not look good. Because you really can’t keep up with it for the rest of your life when it’s around.
10. He doesn’t just think about himself in bed
If your date finds it important that you get enough attention in bed, then that is a good sign. For him, it is not about having scored another woman and it is not just about his own pleasure. A healthy sexual relationship where you are equally important is an important sign that he respects you and that you are much more to him than a free-range.
11. He is proud of you
Does he not try to compete with you, but does he proudly talk about you when he talks to others? Then that is a good sign. And you don’t have to be a genius for that. He can be proud of your cheerful way of laughing, your ability to grow all those plants in your herb garden, the social way you treat your friends, the ease with which you stick your bicycle tire or the taste of the coffee you make.
12. He talks about your future
Does he make plans for the future and do you appear in that? He talks about “if we go to my brother’s wedding next year” or is he joking about your future children? Then he has already decided that he does not want to let you go.
13. It just says it
If he says he loves you and wants to grow old with you, he might just mean it. He really can’t keep that to himself!
Does he really like you?
Maybe a bit too much to ask that he scores all 13! But a few are already a very good sign that he really likes you!
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