Did you know that knowing how to let go of “Mr. Wrong” is just as important (and sometimes, even MORE important)
than finding “Mr. Right?” After all, by the numbers, there are about 5 “Mr. Wrongs” for every “Mr. Right” out there!
Signs He is Mr. Wrong But Not Mr. Right
You need to be in COMPLETE CONTROL of your love life… and how NOT to be under the control of your emotions, your past, or the “rules” of the man in your life right now.
Why is it so important to be in complete control?
Simple: Because if you’re NOT in control of your love life, then bad things… either bad men, bad emotions or bad expectations… will control you. And that often leads to a very unhappy, very unsuccessful love life!
But when you’re in control, you’re NEVER trapped by your emotions. You’re NEVER held back by fear, and you’re NEVER the victim of lousy men and their habits.
What’s more, when you’re in complete control of your love life, you’re completely CLEAR about what kind of man, what kind of relationship, and what kind of life you want to lead. You’re never a prisoner – you always, always have options.
And even better… when you’re in complete control, you’re 100% happy even if you’re single. That’s because wherever you go and whatever you do, the calm and confident energy you give out will make the right kinds of men notice you. And it’s only a matter of time before they approach you and start asking you out.
For now, here’s the very first step you need to take if you want to be in complete control of your love life:
Be a “Master” of Breaking Up
Do you know the reason why so many women get all torn up after a breakup?
It’s simple: Because most times, it’s the guys… and not us… who initiate the breakup.
Most of the time, he suddenly breaks up with us, and we’re thrown into an emotional downward spiral that lasts several months! So let me say that again: If you want to be in complete control of your love life, you got to be a “master” of breaking up.
More specifically, you got to be a “master” of telling whether the man in your life right now is a “Mr. Wrong,” and you got to have the firmness, confidence, and resoluteness to end a relationship before it gets even worse.
So how EXACTLY do you know if a man is “Mr. Wrong?”
Signs He’s NOT “Mr. Right”
Sign #1: He Is Still Seeing Other Women.
This is the most obvious red flag of all, but surprisingly a lot of women tolerate it. Don’t YOU make that mistake:
The moment he cheats on you, end things quickly.
Sign #2: You’re On and Off.
If you keep breaking up and then coming back together, it’s obviously a sign that things aren’t working out. End it, brush yourself off and start hanging out with men with fewer issues.
Sign #3: His Life is in Shambles.
Here’s the rule: If a man doesn’t have his life together FIRST, he’s not fit to take care of you and the kids you might eventually have.
So if he’s lazy, jobless, addicted, or has an active crime record, do yourself a favor and don’t let the relationship get any more complicated than it already is.
But here’s a problem: What if you’re ALREADY in a relationship with “Mr. Wrong,” and you’re too emotionally invested to let go of him?
We have a solution for that, too…
How to Break Up With “Mr. Wrong”
The first step is to get your own life in order. The biggest reason why we stick to lousy men is because he fills a need in our lives. But when you have your life in order – physically, financially, spiritually, socially, and emotionally – then you rid yourself of your need for him.
The second step is to NOT make your relationship a public matter. Don’t ask your mutual friends to take sides, don’t ask your family to intervene (unless your life is in danger, obviously), and don’t take your problems to work. This is between you and him, period.
And the third step is to end the relationship as calmly, quietly, and collectedly as you possibly can. Don’t do anything crazy like driving to his house and making a scene. That’s reality TV foolishness, and you’re better than that.
Just end the relationship, stick to your decision, and move on. He’ll get over it, and so will you.
Be in COMPLETE Control!
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