How To Text Your Ex Boyfriend For The First Time

This is a terrifying and nerve-wracking thought, and you’re on the verge of passing out just thinking about it. Getting back in touch with an ex-boyfriend after a breakup is difficult?

A large percentage of females get this totally wrong. And it’s not strange, given the high emotional stakes involved in anything that includes your ex. And it’s critical to get it correct. It is likely that you will lose your ex-boyfriend for good if you do not do it right.

First and foremost, have you practiced No Contact? If you have no idea what that means, go here right away to learn all about no contact and why it is so important after a breakup.

We’ll assume for the rest of this post that you’ve been practicing No Contact for at least 30 days and are confident that you’re ready to talk to your ex-bf again.

Consider this carefully before acting rashly. Not to mention, you don’t want to lose any more credibility with your ex.

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Are You Sure You Want to Contact Your Ex?

A breakup can cause havoc on your emotions. And you must be honest about how you truly feel. That is where No Contact can assist you.

Do you miss your ex or do you miss being in a relationship? Did he have special qualities that drew you to him, or are you simply lonely? Did you feel connected with him, or did you simply enjoy having someone to talk to when you were alone?

Do you know how to be happy alone?

You want to make sure that getting your boyfriend back is the correct thing for you. There’s no point in putting in so much effort if the relationship isn’t right for you. Desiring to fill a void in your life isn’t enough.

Examine how many of these questions you can answer with YES by asking yourself the following questions:

When I think about my boyfriend, I get upset and want to cry.
I’m afraid he’ll abandon me if I don’t contact him soon.
I can’t take my eyes off his social media pages.
I’m lonely and afraid I won’t find anyone else.

If any of these still apply to you, it’s too soon to contact your ex-bf. You should avoid contact for a little longer.

It was clear to you and to your ex that he had problems with you and your relationship, and that these problems made him feel he didn’t want to be with you any longer.

However, people’s opinions can change, and it’s what you must do now. You must persuade him to reconsider YOU.
How?

How do you convince him to do so?

You must stand out from the crowd. You must behave differently than you did when you were with him. His opinion of you will change if he observes that you have changed.

How to Get in Touch With Your Ex Boyfriend

First, a word of caution. Keep in mind you’re going to be different. That includes refraining from bombarding him with messages and phone calls at all hours of the day and night. The first thing you’ll notice about yourself is that you’ll keep your cool.

It’s time to make a decision, so keep your cool.

How are you planning on getting in touch with your ex-boyfriend?

Making a Phone Call

This one is purely for self-assured and quick-thinking. Calling gives you an immediate sense of your ex’s feelings towards you. The bad news is that it is extremely easy for problems to arise, especially if his emotions are not in a positive state. Then you have a good chance of repeating your breakup.

Really, you should only take this option if your relationship breakdown was not particularly nasty and you still have a good relationship with each other.

Sending a Text Message to Him

What’s great about this approach is that the likelihood of things spiraling out of control is significantly reduced. So take your time before sending each text; the worst that can occur is that he simply ignores you.

Writing a Letter to Him

This method is most effective when attempting to rekindle a long-distance relationship. A friendly, but the not emotional letter is required, and it must be brief, above all else, in order to be effective.

You are also not going to write him a long letter in which you express your feelings for him and tell him how much you love him. Instead, you will accept the breakup and invite him to call you.

If your boyfriend enjoys receiving letters, or if sending letters has become a family tradition between you, it can be a very successful approach to communicating. However, the disadvantage is that you may have to wait a long time for a response – or to be certain that there won’t be one at all!

However, the disadvantage is that you may have to wait a long time for a response – or to be certain that there won’t be one at all!

How To Text Your Ex Boyfriend For The First Time

In your initial communication with your ex-boyfriend through texts following a breakup, your primary goal is simply to re-establish contact with him and get yourself back in his good books.

Having accomplished this, you want to establish enough rapport with him that you will be able to call him, or even better, that you will be able to get him to call you. You would like to meet up again in the end, but you’ll have to wait.

Expect things to be a little bumpy. If your boyfriend does not respond right away, you should go back to no contact for a while.

Here’s what you should do…

Regardless of how hopeless you may feel right now, there is still a light at the end of the tunnel: it has been proved time and time that more than 90% of any and all relationships can be saved. But only if you’re sure what you’re doing…

If you use the techniques in this video, you will be surprised at how simple it is to rekindle the “magic” and “spark” you two had when you first kissed…

You’ll be surprised at how much he wants to contact you, message you, and spend the entire night with you.

How To Text Your Ex Boyfriend For The First Time by Theresa Alice