Why Men Come Back Months Later? Here’s Why

Why Men Come Back Months Later

If you want to get back together and with your ex, there are a few things you should know about male psychology. When you understand what factors increase the likelihood that a man will return months later, it is much easier to establish the ideal course of action. So, without further ado, let’s look at what makes a man return after a breakup!

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Why Men Come Back Months Later?

The main reason why men return months later:

One thing we must remember is that the relationship breakdown occurred for a reason. If he decided to end your relationship, it means he no longer believes in your ability to make him happy in the years ahead.

So the most common reason why men return months later is that there is something that sowed the seeds of doubt in his mind about his choice to break off the relationship with you.

Realizing you’ve changed is what brings a man back.

This is the most significant.

You need to identify areas of your life that could benefit from improvement and take action in order to make positive changes. Your changes will boost your self-esteem, but they will also make your life more appealing to your ex.

When you start working on being the new & improved you, the odds are that you’ll start seeing signs that your ex will eventually return.

Read also: Why does it take guys 8 weeks to miss you?

Is he missing me: Feeling the aftereffects of the breakup

I’ve noticed an interesting pattern in how men and women deal with breakups. The majority of the time, a woman will feel the pain and shock of a relationship ending immediately after it occurs. There will be a lot of raw emotion, and she will be thinking about things like nostalgia and heartbreak.

Guys, however, tend to feel the shock and pain of a breakup later in life. They will initially look at the fact that they’re single and can disconnect themselves from negative feelings, however, the negative thoughts will surface later.

It’s interesting to note that when heartbreaking emotions associated with a breakup are ignored, they are frequently amplified and they finally surface. This is another aspect of the breakup process of recovery that we emphasize. So, if you are beginning to wonder, “Does he think about me?” you should be ready for the moment when he begins to drawn back towards you…

Read also: How to make your ex want you back so bad

They always return after a while IF…

If you are beginning to wonder, “Can exes come back?” or “How else can I get him to come back?” there are a few strategies you can use.

The no contact rule is the most effective and well-known strategy for bringing an ex back. It essentially consists of halting all channels of interaction with your ex-boyfriend for a specified period of time varying from 3 weeks to 3 months.

The duration will be determined by the specifics of your relationship breakdown.

The primary objective of this method is to shock your ex-boyfriend enough that he realizes he is no longer on that pedestal.

He’s used to you being around, and you may have tried to be really available to him following the relationship breakdown.

That’s a very human reaction to try everything within your power to persuade him to give you one more chance after he had ended the relationship.

But, most often, if you start leaving him alone, he will return… You just need to ensure you’re making good use of your time. If you truly want it to work, you must use the time you spend with no contact with your ex for personal development.

Read also: If I stop contacting him will he come back?

It will be critical to focus on the following points:

• What the problems in the relationship were and how you can find long-term solutions.

• What aspects of your personal life were put on hold when this relationship took priority in your life?

• What new personal objectives can you set for yourself?

• What can you do to boost your self-esteem?

• How can you devote more time to doing good for yourself and everyone else?

The more occupied you are with all this stuff, the easier it is to catch his attention. Additionally, this will assist you in diverting your attention away from thoughts such as “Will he comes back to me?” and “Is he trying to think about me too?

Allow him to come to you after a failed relationship and concentrate on making changes.

The most important thing to avoid when you want your ex-partner back is crying and begging with him. This is exactly the kind of thing that would send a man running for the hills! The key to regaining an ex is to inspire him to want to be closer to you by demonstrating that you lead a life that he would like to be a part of.

Don’t ever Make The Same Mistake With An Ex Twice!

This is why I emphasize the importance of being a better version of yourself. You managed to make him fall in love with you once; imagine what he’ll think when he realizes you’re the 2.0 edition of the woman he fell in love with in the first place!

Unfortunately, it is very normal for people to become engrossed in a relationship. If you’re not making plans for your life, your aspirations, your loved ones, your friends, and your goals, it’s all too easy to let your life revolve around your significant other.

Focusing on regaining balance in your life will help you to regain and reinforce your self-confidence, presenting you as the woman your ex refused to believe you could be.

It will be extremely easy for him to view you in a new light if you’re confident in who you are & what you bring to the game.

So, to answer your question about why my men return months later, that’s because they realize that they could still be happy with you, however, this normally occurs when they notice visible changes in you.

An ex will not return and enter into the very same specific relationship that you have had before since you both know how that ended. He’ll be looking for a brand spanking new relationship with a firm foundation and solutions to the problems you’ve previously faced.

Here’s what you should do…

Regardless of how hopeless you may feel right now, there is still a light at the end of the tunnel: it has been proved time and time that more than 90% of any and all relationships can be saved. But only if you’re sure what you’re doing…

If you use the techniques in this video, you will be surprised at how simple it is to rekindle the “magic” and “spark” you two had when you first kissed…

You’ll be surprised at how much he wants to contact you, message you, and spend the entire night with you.


Why Men Come Back Months Later by Theresa Alice