Texts That Will Make Him Want You More

You will soon get fourteen sentences that make a man fall in love with you.

I do not mean to say that it concerns some kind of magic spells.

It is not a matter of “ simsalabim” and he will follow you forever.

Instead, you get phrases that stimulate a man’s desire for you and make it so rewarding for him to stay with you that they never want anyone else again.

You will be taught a lesson in male psychology and learn the triggers you can use to make a man addicted to you.

14 Texts That Will Make Him Want You More

# 1 “If only there were more men like you”

Men are just as insecure as women. We’re just better at hiding this.

We also know that you would rather have a strong than a weak man around you. And when we have a family, we are counted on to be the stable factor no matter how rotten we feel.

That’s why a man will always keep up appearances.

Even though he feels bad, even if he is on his last legs, a real man does not complain or show how badly he is.

But if a man is under high pressure for too long, this will automatically go wrong. The amount of men who burn out or are addicted to sedatives is enormous. We are under enormous pressure.

Fortunately, as a woman, you have the opportunity to relieve that pressure.

Not by taking over from us. But by occasionally saying we’re doing great.

When you compliment him by saying things like ” Were there more men like you” …

… You are basically saying that he stands head and shoulders above other men.

He is stronger. He performs better. He is more masculine.

That’s what every man wants to hear.

Add to that the fact that he is insecure on the inside and does not dare to tell this and you have the recipe for a compliment that he still shines days later.

# 2 “May I have your honest opinion about …”

Want to know the best way to get a man’s attention?

Then ask him what he thinks about something.

You show that you take his opinion seriously and that you would like advice from him. And every man finds this flattering.

Even if it’s something as simple as ” Is peanut butter or Nutella healthier?”

If you ask him for his “honest opinion” it is an opportunity for him to be useful and to show you what he can do.

At least, that’s how a man sees it.

And the magic word in this sentence is the word ” fair”.

This shows that you want to know what he really thinks. And that you don’t need the socially acceptable answer.

Because as men, we’re used to women asking us what we think without actually wanting to know.

By communicating that you are happy with every answer (because you ask for his opinion) you build trust. You show that you appreciate him for what he thinks and that you take him seriously.

# 3 “You should only know …”

This is a great one if you are talking about something romantic or erotic when you have not known each other very long.

Every man likes to be teased. And he finds it attractive if he doesn’t get to see everything right away.

When you are having a conversation about something sexual and you casually drop something but say (when he inquires) ” you should know …”

Then his imagination runs wild and his hunting instinct is stimulated.

It is the ideal way to spice up his pick-up attempt. At the same time, you show that you are not telling everyone intimate details. And that creates confidence.

# 4 “I’ll tell you later.”

Suppose he asks you what you did last night.

That is not a time to use as a cliffhanger. A sentence such as “ I’ll tell you later”  is therefore not appropriate.

But if you’re telling a story and you leave something out that makes him curious, it doesn’t hurt to quickly change the subject while saying you’ll tell him later.

It’s a simple trick to spice up a flirtation conversation and keep his attention.

Something difficult enough. Because mystery is exciting.

He probably assumes that you are a deep person and that there is still a lot to discover about you.

# 5 “Thank you.”

If guys are sensitive to something, it’s when you say ” thank you”  when he does something for you.

There is one more thing he is more sensitive to. And that’s when you don’t say ” thank you”. A man doesn’t like that at all.

Unfortunately, this is the norm.

Most men do not get a thank you for the achievements they make to the women in their lives.

They are forced to work hard but are not given thanks for it.

I’m not saying that women are mean or that the world is unfair. But men just have a big ego. And they are sensitive to it when a thank you is not forthcoming.

You can distinguish yourself from all other women by regularly thanking him for doing something for you.

Whether you’re together for ten days or ten years, he still wants to hear it every day.

If you can, you will be assured that the men in your life will continue to love you.

Because they can’t hear it often enough.

# 6 “I want a pizza.”

When a man starts dating a woman, a game often arises in which he has to make all the choices and at the same time guess what the woman wants.

For example, he asks her, ” What do you want to eat?”

And then she says: “ Just do something! I like everything!”

After which he starts to list options and she can tell about each option if she feels like it.

“ Do you want Turkish food?

“ Turkish food? Gadver. No thanks.”

“ There is a Mexican place at Waterlooplein. Very cozy.”

” I don’t like spicy food and sombreros are ugly.”

All his suggestions are rejected but he has to make the decision. The woman in this example thinks she is flexible, but in fact, she is putting all pressure on him.

And it is not in one situation. The same happens in all decisions in which the man involves her. All in all, he cannot do it well and he has less and less need for it.

Decide what you want

When he asks you what you want to eat, it is better to say what you want to eat than to reject all of his options.

For example, say, ” Give me a pizza!”

The alternative is for you to say, ” Oh, you can choose!” And that you decide in advance to compliment him on his choice afterward, even if you would have preferred something else.

The first option is a relief because he doesn’t end up in a situation where he has to decide and spend half an hour guessing what you don’t feel like doing.

The second option is also good if you really don’t care and are actually flexible.

The guy asking you this question wants to consider you and make sure you have a great night.

So it is better to decide for yourself what you are happy with so that you can start that night and no longer have to negotiate.

# 7 “I feel safe with you”

Small and thin as he is, he is aware that a strong man is an attractive man.

In addition, it is a primal instinct to want to protect our girlfriend.

These are the two main reasons he responds so well to compliments about his ability to protect you.

Comments about his strength, perseverance, and competences are also doing well.

He may feel masculine because you ” typecast ” him into the role of a strong man protecting you.

It works the other way too.

If you occasionally put yourself in the role of the defenseless maiden with a comment, it is an opportunity for him to come to your aid.

And that makes him feel masculine again.

More on that later. First:

# 8 “I feel so comfortable with you …”

“… It feels like I’ve known you for years.”

If you feel this it is very smart to express it. If you don’t feel this way, it’s a bit manipulative. Because it is a strong signal for a man.

If you tell him that it feels like you’ve known him for years, it creates an intimate atmosphere and a sense of belonging.

He feels even more at ease and his sense of connection increases.

You may be afraid of being vulnerable. But saying the above to him has many advantages.

Not least that he feels flattered and takes it as a green light to be even better for you than he already is.

Most importantly, he wants to be careful with the trust you place in him.

If you show a guy that you believe he’ll treat you right in the future, he subconsciously wants to live up to it.

On the contrary, if you are very suspicious and accuse him of not treating you well in the future, he has no ideal image in his head and is more likely to throw a hat at it.

So if you say that you trust him and that it’s like you’ve known him for years, you’re saying that you expect him to be just as nice to you in the future.

And that makes him proud.

# 9 “Could you just lift this for me?”

Maybe you wonder why a man would fall in love with a woman who asks him to lift something heavy for her.

But then you could also ask yourself why a man would fall in love with a woman who asks him to open a jar, fix her bicycle, or set up her new printer.

Because these kinds of requests increase the chance that a man likes you.

Every request for help is wonderful. He then has the chance to prove himself.

He wants to feel capable and valuable.

When you ask him something and he can do it for you, he feels like the man. Provided it concerns things that every man should be able to do in his eyes.

If you ask him what color nail polish suits you best, he’ll see it as an insult because this isn’t relevant information for a tough man.

But if you ask him to assemble, fix, lift, or fix something, he’ll see it as a compliment for hiring him for something typically masculine.

You rise in prestige if you ask him for help

Would you prefer to spend time with someone who makes you feel good?

Of course, you do. Someone who constantly pisses you off is a downright bad company. And someone you can get along with but you don’t feel that you are held in high regard, you only make time for that every now and then.

But if someone puts you on a pedestal by telling you how beautiful and smart you are …

… and in addition in his behavior shows that he is 100% behind those statements …

… Then you will want to spend time with that person more often.

By putting a man to work with a request for help, you achieve exactly this effect.

So occasionally let him do something you can do yourself, but that makes him feel like a real twink.

Whether it’s fixing your band or choosing a cocktail in a bar.

# 10 “You are a hero.”

This is in line with every man’s desire to feel useful.

Ideally, he wants to be your savior.

He wants to make himself so useful that you can’t live without him and appreciate him more than any other man.

Any grown man would love to be Superman with a nice cape and a few extra superpowers.

And with a long resume with his exploits on it, which, by the way, have to do with saving you only.

It is not uncommon for teenage boys to dream of winning the heart of their favorite girl by offering protection or salvation.

It goes so far that in various amusement parks, men can hire an actor to attack their girl so that he can tell him to scratch.

Well, you could give some broad friends a few bucks to do the same thing when you and your friend walk down the street.

But complimenting him on being a hero is enough to achieve the same. Especially if he has just done something cool or nice for you.

# 11 “I think it’s as sexy as you …”

Enter something here that he has made an effort.

Whether it’s for you or something he’s worked hard on (showing his worth).

And it is even better if it is something sexual.

He wants to be your best lover ever. But most men have no idea what they are doing.

They just improvise and hope for the best.

If you compliment him in this way you can steer him in the right direction. You can take away the insecurity he feels by improvising.

You can show him what you like and don’t like by telling him what you think is sexy.

And it might seem odd to call him sexy when he’s done something nice for you or showed his worth.

But for a man, those two are linked. As you know, he wants to feel valuable and useful. He knows that women find this attractive.

So if you confirm that you think he is sexy after he did something for you, he thinks what he did for you paid off.

Bonus tip on texts that will make him want you more:

Does he go to the gym and watch what he eats?

Then say you think he is sexy when he takes off his shirt because he is so wide or so slim. If this is something he is making an effort for then it is very nice to hear.

# 12 “My boyfriend is great”

Have you ever noticed that some women openly complain about their boyfriend to other people, sometimes even in front of him?

Or that she tells stories about him that are a bit on the embarrassing side?

This is something you don’t want to do.

He will feel a little humiliated, even if he laughs it off. At best, he won’t blame you, but you won’t score points with it.

It is much better to brag about him (in front of his nose and behind his back).

If you only say positive things about him and this comes back to him, that is a huge ego boost.

It’s what every man wants:

A woman who is overjoyed to have him and let everyone know she won’t let him go.

Of course, you don’t have to praise him all the time. But be careful about openly criticizing your friend. Don’t forget to mention the other side.

Or even better:

Save that criticism and tell everyone how great he is when it is appropriate (for example, when other women complain about their husbands).

# 13 “Wow, how gallant!”

Most men have a hard time being romantic.

He probably isn’t sure what you like about it when he pushes your chair back so you can sit down. Or why you would like a bunch of flowers.

He knows it’s normal for men to do this for women.

But he doesn’t understand why you like it because all these things leave him cold. He finds it difficult to put himself in your place.

But you can help him with that.

Not by explaining to him why you like things like this. But by complimenting him when he does it. That way, you’ll make sure to increase the chances of him doing it again.

Because if he notices that you like it, there is something to gain for him by doing it again.

In addition, he would like to feel like a gentleman and he is enthusiastic when he sees that you think he is a superman.

So by letting him know how happy you are with it, you increase the likelihood that he will act romantically to you, but also that he will feel better and better about doing romantic things.

You still shouldn’t expect it to start bouncing itself if you were to give it flowers. But at least you have a man who wants to be nice to you and who feels good about it.

# 14 “You were right.”

This might be a crazy one. But think about the last fight you had.

You’ve probably said or done things that weren’t pretty. That happens to all of us when we are angry.

If you can apologize afterward or tell him he was right, he really appreciates it.

Of course, you don’t have to apologize if you haven’t done anything wrong.

But if he does, you better admit it so he can forgive you. Or if you were angry or frustrated with him, it is also nice to tell him afterward that you were emotional for a while but that you do not want to deal with him that way from now on.

A willingness to apologize if you haven’t treated him as nicely temporarily makes him willing to do the same.

If both of you strive to take good care of each other, the bar will be set high and the chances of unsolvable conflict will be reduced.

It also flatters his ego when you can admit that you were temporarily unreasonable and that he was right after all. Making your apologies is therefore always a good idea.

Besides texts that will make him want you more, there is one more thing you can do to make him fall in love with you

Of course, these phrases help to make him fall in love.

But there is one simple trick that is so powerful, you can drive any man crazy. A trick that makes him only think about you.

I call that the Men’s Secret.

There is a drive called The Infatuation Instinct… And It evolved to channel all a man’s desire onto one particular woman.

According to a paper published in “Archives of Sexual Behavior” in 2014 by a team of researchers led by Dr. Helen Fischer…

“This passion is involuntary and uncontrollable” And creates an “inability to feel romantic passion for more than one person at a time”…

So not only is he irresistibly drawn to you, but he’s unable to even imagine having feelings for anyone else…

The infatuation instinct works by altering his brain chemistry…WATCH VIDEO

Texts That Will Make Him Want You More – 14 Phrases by Theresa Alice