How To Get Out of The Friendzone With a Guy – Now What?
You’ve known him for quite some time. You spend a lot of time with each other and you speak to him regularly. You get along really well.
In fact…
You get along a little too well.
You are good friends with the two of you. But that’s not what you would like most.
You don’t see him as ‘just a buddy’, you see it differently.
You see him as more than just a buddy and you would prefer to have a serious relationship with him. You want to eat out with him as a couple and not just friends.
But there is one big problem …
He does see you as just a buddy and sees you (not yet!) As relationship material …
Or it’s worse …
For him, you are “one of the guys”.
And then you suddenly realize:
I am in the friend zone as a woman.
There is a myth that the friend zone is a typical problem that affects men. However, nothing could be further from the truth …
Unfortunately, there are women in love with ‘a friend’ without any idea how to make more of it.
Luckily for you, there is also good news 😉
In this article, I’m going to help you get out of the friend zone. You learn:
- 9 simple tips to free yourself from the friend zone.
- What you have to do to become relationship material in his eyes
- Which is the number # 1 secret to getting out of the friendzone
- How flirting is going to help you break free from the friend zone
- Why men are sometimes just like cats
- Why men are as silly as hell and why it matters to escape the friend zone
- And much more…
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If you are in love with someone but the other sees you as ‘just a friend’, it can hurt a lot.
In fact, it feels like you are in a prison.
With these… simple tips I am going to free you from the friend zone prison once and for all!
How To Get Out of The Friendzone With a Guy
Tip 1: Give him what he longs for
To begin with, let me say something important about men …
Look, we men sometimes work very simply.
Men can enjoy evenings watching football with their buddies. In the meantime they drink a beer, they make silly jokes and they crack each other.
Every so often they still fart or fart.
It’s simple behavior, but that’s partly why men love it so much.
At least… they like this behavior when it comes to men among themselves.
When it comes to the opposite sex, it’s suddenly a completely different story.
Do you know what all heterosexual men have in common?
Right.
All heterosexual men are attracted to women.
With a great emphasis on women. No congeners.
If you constantly behave masculine to the man you have a crush on, something really bad is going to happen …
He will see you as one of his buddies. One of the guys. And you absolutely don’t want that.
Perhaps the thought made a lot of sense: I’m going to behave as he does with his friends because then he’ll definitely like me …
But unfortunately…
He simply does not see you as a sexual person. In fact, he’s never imagined what it would be like to be with you as ‘more than friends’ …
If you are in this situation, then you have (unconsciously) made it pretty difficult for yourself.
But rest assured, is there a way out?
Again: Men like women.
For that reason, it is important that you show a feminine, sexual side.
You can apply this conveniently in two areas: clothing and behavior.
To give you a hand, I have written 3 tips per area so that you can appear more feminine and can attract his attention.
Clothing:
- Wear red. RESEARCH shows that red is found more attractive by men.
- Wear feminine clothes. A hoodie and sweatpants are very comfortable, but it is far from feminine. You really don’t have to constantly wear dresses and skirts, but taking a look at the women’s department of, for example, the H&M cannot hurt.
- Shows bare skin. Men are visual creatures. They are stimulated when they see bare skin. You can use this to your advantage if you want to appear feminine and sexual. No, you don’t have to be naked on the street? In general, a ratio of 70 percent covered and 30 percent bare is best. The picture on the right gives you an example of this.
Behavior:
- Avoid everything masculine. Burping or farting, being loud, and telling dirty jokes can be a lot of fun when you’re drunk, but avoid it at all times. The more masculine you behave, the more masculine he will see you. If you want to get out of the friend zone, that’s the last thing you want.
- Be caring. No, you don’t have to iron his clothes? Small, caring gestures can be incredibly attractive. Think of wiping the corner of his mouth, tidy up his clothes or stroking his back when he is tense.
- Flirt with him. Acting flirtatious is not only feminine, but it also increases the sexual tension between you. If you flirt with him enough, he will sooner see you as a potential partner than as a buddy. Later in this article, I’ll give you tips on how best to flirt with him. ?
Tip 2: Don’t forget to exaggerate!
Men have a special talent. Discover this talent and you will know why you are in the friend zone and how to get out.
For millions of years, this talent of men has miscommunicated with women.
Herewith I will reveal the talent:
Men have a knack for missing subtle hints and signals.
Most women try very subtly to show that they like a man because they don’t want to screw it up.
They fear that if they make their intentions too obvious, they will reject the man in question.
But the reality is that you can just add that little bit extra. ?
Because there is a big risk that the man you have a crush on will not even notice your subtle hints. That way he will continue to see you as a friend at all times.
So it is very important to make your intentions clear in an exaggerated way. Make it over the top.
Make him aware that you want to seduce him (this article will help you with that :).
The only thing you don’t want to do is always be in charge of the seduction process … Keep holding out a carrot to him all the time, but as soon as you notice he’s about to bite, take a step back …
Now you know that it is clear that you are interested, now he can do his best …
It is also important to make flirting as over the top as possible. In the next tip you will learn how.
Tip 3: Flirt away!
There is one very important thing that keeps you in the friend zone. If you become aware of this, escaping the friend zone will be made a lot easier for you.
The key to eternal damnation in the friendzone is …
Safety.
If you constantly seek safety, there will never be tension between the two of you. If you treat him purely as a friend, he will start seeing you too.
Sounds simple, right? The question now is of course what you can do about it.
And that’s the following:
Make sure to trade safety for thrills.
Instead of constantly looking for safety, and thus not getting any further to free yourself from the friend zone, the task now is to create tension.
Because tension generates attraction.
This tension is created through flirting. Flirting not only enhances attraction, but he also becomes aware that you see him as more than friends.
I imagine it can be quite exciting to suddenly go on the flirt tour with him.
For that reason, I’m going to give you a little hand with it today?
Below I’ve listed a few quick tips to help you flirt:
Ask him for help
Men have a huge ego. They want nothing more than to have this ego caressed constantly. You can cleverly respond to this. Ask him to help you lift that one heavy closet. Then compliment him on his strength and helpfulness. Men want nothing more than to feel masculine and important?
Make eye contact with him
RESEARCH has shown that strong eye contact is considered attractive.
Laugh!
People who laugh a lot are seen as more attractive. He will certainly appreciate this if you laugh at his jokes now and then. (Remember men’s huge egos?). But not only that. If you smile a lot, you will feel better yourself and this will increase your self-confidence. We call that a win/win situation!
Challenge him
Friends are nice to each other. This creates a friendly atmosphere. However, if you want to get out of the friend zone, you want to create tension. You can do this by subtly teasing or challenging every now and then.
Play with your hair
It’s a very simple and harmless flirt signal, but it does something to us. Not only do we find it attractive to see, but you also show that you are interested in him.
Tip 4: The number 1 secret ON how to get out of the friendzone with a guy
There is such an incredibly powerful thing you can do to get out of the friend zone.
For both men and women, this can be the key to freeing yourself from the friendzone prison.
The problem is, a lot of people don’t do it enough.
And that’s a shame because it’s such a powerful weapon.
This powerful weapon can be summed up in one fantastic verb:
To touch.
When you touch someone, you are automatically considered more attractive. In addition, touching increases sexual tension.
This sexual tension is needed to make a boyfriend out of a friend.
The problem is that many people sometimes find it difficult to touch or do not know how to handle it.
I will help you with that too? (I know, I’m in a helpful mood today).
What you need to remember is the following:
Always work in small steps.
Grabbing him right by the crotch isn’t a good idea?
Start with the insensitive areas such as the shoulders or arm.
Only then do you go to the more sensitive areas.
Touching can be done very simply in the following ways:
- Briefly touch him by the shoulder or arm when he is joking.
- Touch him if you want to ask him something.
- Touch him on the more sensitive areas such as his chest, thigh, lower back, inside of his forearms, or his face.
- If he says something flirty or compliments you, touch his jaw briefly.
- If he’s leading you somewhere, briefly touch his lower back.
- Touch it ‘accidentally’ in a busy environment.
Tip 5: Let him be your superhero
If you want to get out of the friend zone, it is very important to take into account the big ego of men.
If you know how to stimulate this ego in the right way, you can increase the sexual tension. This makes him consider you more attractive. This makes your escape from the friend zone a lot easier?
There is a really easier way to stimulate a man’s ego:
Compliment him.
But don’t just compliment.
Compliment him in such a way that he feels like your superhero.
There are three special ways of complimenting that can stir up feelings in him:
Compliment his style instead of his looks
He did not choose his looks. His style is. If you compliment him on, for example, his clothes, that compliment will arrive much better and more sincerely.
Compliment his talents
It is best to compliment him on how he has achieved something instead of what he already has. Suppose he can play guitar well. You could compliment that, but chances are he has already received a lot of it. Instead, you could say something like, “I think it’s really great that you’ve been practicing so disciplined all these years.”
Compliment his manhood
It’s very simple: a man wants to feel like a man. Focus your compliments on that too. For example, compliment him on his strength or say that you feel so safe around him.
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Tip 6: Make your needs extremely clear
There is something that women in the friend zone let themselves be destroyed.
You want to avoid this ultimate form of self-torment at all times.
The ultimate form of self-torment I am talking about is the following:
Staying friends with someone you have a crush on.
You may think there is no harm, but you will beat yourself up when you later see that he ran off with someone else while you remain his best friend.
To prevent this, it is important to make it extremely clear that you are looking for more than just friends (with benefits).
Remember when men have a knack for missing subtle hints?
So don’t be too subtle by telling him that you are not the type of woman who settled for a normal friendship with him.
But beware!
It doesn’t hurt to take the initiative by telling him you’re looking for more.
However, it is expected that this initiative will usually only be taken by men.
It is therefore important to remember that you can take the initiative as long as you do not take the lead.
Men want to be the leader at all times and feel in control. Take that feeling away and he’ll be off with someone else before you know it.
Tip 7: Make him long for you
There is another factor that can cause him to become your “boyfriend” instead of your “friend”.
What you need to understand for this is actually very simple.
Friends are always there for each other.
This means that if you want to be more than friends with him you will have to do the following:
Don’t always be there for him.
I understand it sounds paradoxical, let me explain.
Men are like cats. If you are looking for attention from a cat, the animal will quickly lose interest.
But as soon as the cat wants your attention …
Will it pull out all the stops to get that. Meow, give cups, sit on your lap, you name it.
Now I’m not saying he’ll jump right on your lap?
But if you can make him want you, you will be much more likely to attract him and make him more interested in you.
Cancel an appointment, not always be available and be less around him.
The less you are around him, the more he thinks about you.
Tip 8: Why some men are wimps …
You know you don’t necessarily have to be in the friend zone. You may think you are in the friend zone.
And that is not so much your fault, but more of him.
Have you ever considered that he likes you? This could just be the case.
In fact, for many women who think they are in the friend zone, this is the issue.
Keep in mind that many men are very wimpy when it comes to love.
Yes, men like to take leadership and initiative, but they don’t always do it. Because suppose he asks you out but you say no?
Then what happens to his ego?
That ego takes a huge blow, and he can’t afford to. For that reason, it could be that he likes you but simply does not dare to show it.
The flirting tips from tip 3 can ensure that he can come out of his shell a little more and give him the courage to ask you out …
Tip 9: Forget all romantic movies ever
Romantic movies create a certain image in love which is disastrous for your love life.
This image is that all love is ‘meant to be’.
Just think of a cliché romantic Hollywood movie. At first, it doesn’t seem to work out, but in the end, the main characters come together because they are destined for each other.
Because according to these movies, love conquers everything.
Sorry to break your bubble….
But in reality, it is not always that rosy. People who are in the friend zone feed on the hope that ‘it will eventually work out’.
But in the worst case, this is not the case …
And have you wasted years on someone who doesn’t like you as much as you do.
Or worse …
“He doesn’t find you attractive and uses you”
Yes, it can hit hard. But the reality remains that some men, unfortunately, do this.
He may not be so attracted to you, but to your friends, which is why he keeps you close.
Of course, this is a ‘worst-case scenario’ which does not always have to be true …
But it is all the more reason to remember at all times that it does not have to be that he is necessary ‘the one’.
That is why it is important to keep your options open at all times. Even though he’s so much fun, keep meeting and dating other men.
You never know what will come your way.
Here are the 9 tips to free yourself from the friendzone prison!
But there is a lot more you can do …
Not just to get out of the friend zone …
But to make him crazy about you.
He will want nothing more than to be with you. And not just as friends, but as lovers.
You can achieve this if you know the 3 links of the male brain …
If you can deal with this in the right way, you can make him madly in love with you.
Now What?
There is a drive called The Infatuation Instinct… And It evolved to channel all a man’s desire onto one particular woman.
According to a paper published in “Archives of Sexual Behavior” in 2014 by a team of researchers led by Dr. Helen Fischer…
“This passion is involuntary and uncontrollable” And creates an “inability to feel romantic passion for more than one person at a time”…
So not only is he irresistibly drawn to you, but he’s unable to even imagine having feelings for anyone else…
The infatuation instinct works by altering his brain chemistry…WATCH VIDEO
How To Get Out of The Friendzone With a Guy by Theresa Alice