Ignore a Guy and He’ll Come Running Back
Find out the 16 psychological effects why ignore a guy and he’ll come running!
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Ignore a Guy and He’ll Come Running Back – 16 Psychological effect
#Psychological effect 1: He gets a guilty conscience
What usually happens: he will feel guilty!
Especially when he has left you!
Why?
Because we don’t like to hurt others! And certainly not people you once loved.
So you can be sure: if you ignore him, a guilty conscience is inevitable.
#Psychological effect 2: “missing” is triggered in him
Mostly the feeling of “missing” is triggered. Especially when you’ve left him!
Remember: we only miss when we have lost something. Or, we miss it all the more!
And that means: if you ignore him for longer, he will realize that you have lost! Which triggers “miss” relatively quickly.
But: should he have left you … possibly out of a lack of love …
… the probability that he misses you is rather low!
On the contrary: it can happen that your “not reacting” is not noticed at all!
Therefore: This psychological effect usually only takes effect when you have left him!
#Psychological effect 3: He may become jealous if …
Ignoring combined with jealousy has a very powerful effect! It doesn’t matter whether you have been left or have left!
If you want attention from him, do the following:
Suggest via Facebook, WhatsApp, or Instagram that you’ve met someone.
And then start ignoring him!
The result: He becomes aware of having lost you.
Worse still: having lost you to someone else!
The psychological effect: as a rule, “miss” starts. And it is not uncommon for him to start running after you!
Above all: when the breakup is relatively fresh.
#Psychological effect 4: He gets mad at you
Another typical effect: anger!
Especially if you have been in close contact since the breakup.
And actually, everything happened in a harmonious, interpersonal, acceptable, and lovable way.
In other words: a separation without a mud fight
If you start to ignore him now, anger tends to arise.
Anger that you are able to do such a thing!
Anger at yourself!
And anger at losing you!
But: if you split up in an argument, this effect usually does not occur.
On the contrary: instead of anger, there is understanding!
#Psychological effect 5: He downplays it
The absolute classic: you start to ignore him … And suddenly there are text messages like:
“Oh come on, leave these games”.
“I know exactly that you want to annoy me …”.
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The problem: if you give in now, the psychological effect will dry up!
But: if you ignore these games too, he will develop a new awareness!
The awareness of actually making a mistake. A mistake that can no longer be made well.
The awareness of having lost you.
With the result: In addition to a guilty conscience, there is also a fear of loss.
The result: he starts to miss you.
Warning: if he makes any comments of this kind, it could be a narcissist. In this case, it is advisable to build a distance!
#Psychological effect 6: He runs after you
An effect that is not uncommon: suddenly he runs after you!
Especially if you have been ignoring him for a long time!
If you want revenge, now is your chance. Whether it will make you happy is another question!
So: if you ignore him and he chases after you … You now have the chance for revenge!
But: I myself had this situation … I ignored it! And finally, he ran after me! So I kept ignoring him and taking my revenge.
The result: in the end, I didn’t feel better.
On the contrary!
Instead of loosening up and focusing on myself, I have invested my energy in an act of revenge – on him.
Therefore my tip: No acts of revenge!
#Psychological effect 7: He worries
He is a harmonious and lovable person? And only ever sees the best in people?
Then it is likely that he will start to worry.
A psychological effect that occurs relatively often.
But: should he become aware that your “ignoring” has other reasons …
… You could break something.
In the worst case, a bond that could have given a lot as a friend.
So: think twice if you want to go that far!
#Psychological effect 8: He is sorry!
The absolute classic: he is suddenly sorry.
Especially then: when he actually still had feelings. But was unsure. And as a result, the separation began.
Likewise: if you have left him!
The rule is: if he has feelings for you, there are usually countless excuses.
Especially if you ignore him for a long time!
My tip: if you are still interested, then you should accept the apology!
Why?
Because this may be your last chance to get a return!
But: if you ignore him in order to have your peace … Then write him off!
#Psychological effect 9: It becomes clear to him – you don’t want contact
This effect mostly occurs after he has broken up. And if it is obvious that you were hurt in the process!
Mostly with the background: “ok, I hurt you! I can fully understand that you don’t want any contact now ”.
Typical for this: that you ignore him and are just as “counter-ignored”. Although in theory friendly communication would be possible!
So, if you’re trying to get attention, don’t do it! If he has no feelings for you, “ignoring” will do you little good!
You can recognize this from the fact that despite your “ignoring”, he does not respond!
If you want to get some distance – do it!
#Psychological effect 10: Even longer time – awareness of mistakes grows
The typical effect of ignoring your ex: a healthy sense of error grows!
It’s about this: sometimes we hurt other people. Without us realizing how hurtful our actions actually are!
And sometimes it just takes this “ignoring” to make us aware of our mistakes.
Especially if you’ve let him get away with a lot. In other words, you have often been treated unfairly!
Or: if he accepted you relatively lightly. According to the motto “you always say” yes “and give in.”
In this case “ignore” makes sense!
Because: you make him aware that a limit has been reached! And with this awareness, he becomes aware of his mistakes!
The effect: you gain massively in value and he reflects wrong behavior!
#Psychological effect 11: After a long time – “feeling of loss” becomes conscious
If there is still love in him, a “feeling of loss” should arise in him!
I know it from myself: there was a breakup and I didn’t care. It wasn’t until my ex ignored me that I realized the loss!
The result: all of a sudden, many feelings are broken!
regret after ignoring
What I have to admit: if he had ignored me after the breakup, I might have fought for him!
Therefore: when the separation is fresh when you have been abandoned when you are still in contact …
… “Ignoring” could lead to him wanting to go back. Simply because he suddenly becomes aware of your loss!
#Psychological effect 12: He is hurt
Remember, “ignoring” can hurt him!
Especially when you’ve left him!
…and if he still has feelings!
Most of the time, this happens after you’ve initiated the breakup. Or if you are responsible for the separation through your behavior!
This effect only makes sense if you are looking for distance!
Or if you don’t want to know anything more from him. Maybe to find your center.
Sometimes it makes sense to hurt and make someone understand that it is over!
If that is your intention and the prerequisites are right: it can make sense to hurt him by your “ignoring”!
Psychological effect 13: You can appease your ego in the short term
Would you like an act of revenge? In this case “ignore” makes perfect sense!
Especially when you’ve been abandoned.
And also: if you still have a lot of contacts!
Worst of all: if you ignore him for a birthday!
There will be moments when he will notice your behavior. And makes itself felt accordingly:
Through angry text messages.
By running after them.
Through confessions of love.
Through jealousy methods, etc.
And once that happens, you will feel satisfied! Trust me! You will have this moment when you can appease your ego.
But: after that, it’s the same as before.
Oh, what do I say: No, after that it’s worse than before!
Why?
Because you focused your energy on him! Instead of yourself. And instead of working on your emotional independence!
The result: your infatuation increases and grows.
Likewise: if you still have feelings, you will feel bad afterward. Because who likes to hurt someone they love? And that too increases your emotional dependence!
Therefore: I advise you against ignoring him if you just want to appease your ego. It will make you unhappy!
Psychological effect 14: You show clear boundaries – what is good for you
What makes sense, however: you show clear boundaries! Limits he has crossed.
That means:
That you stand by yourself.
That you have strong self-worth.
That you have a strong personality.
And that you can’t do everything with you.
That in turn is a positive effect!
Especially when you’ve been abandoned and hurt.
So: if this is the effect you want … ignore it!
It’ll only do you good in the end!
But: in this case, you shouldn’t just “ignore”, but set up a contact block.
#Psychological effect 15: You have more focus on yourself again!
In addition: if you ignore him, you have more focus on yourself!
In other words: your intention should be that you can concentrate more on yourself.
In this case, “ignoring” can be really helpful!
But: it makes more sense to block contacts. That is clearly communicated! And that clearly states that he shouldn’t contact you either!
Because a simple “ignoring” will always lead to messages coming from him!
With the result: that you won’t get any rest! Because ignore a guy and he’ll come running back.
So: if you want to concentrate more on yourself, do not ignore, but set a contact block!
#Psychological effect 16: You make it easier for him to graduate!
Sometimes we don’t want to notice separations. We close ourselves to it! Even if it’s long over.
The whole thing can go so far that lovesickness lasts for years.
If you know he has feelings, then “ignoring” can be useful.
To the extent that you make it clear to him that it is over! And that there is no turning back! Because you just run out of feelings!
By ignoring him you make it easier for him. You communicate indirectly that you don’t want to anymore. And that you consciously hurt him!
The result: he is hurt. And this “injury” helps to distance oneself more quickly.
The consequence: he will get better faster. And the feeling of “Oh actually he still loves me” is nipped in the bud!
So if you want to make it easier for him, ignoring can be a good tool. But expect that it will hurt him! Especially when you’ve left.
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Ignore a Guy and He’ll Come Running Back By Theresa Alice