How To Deal With a Moody Cancer Man
The Moon is the celestial body that dominates Cancer. The Moon always changes.
It exerts a pull on the planet, which in turn controls the flow of oceanic tides and ebbs. It should come as no surprise that a person born under this zodiac sign may give the impression of being moodier than other people. It’s how their personality traits are expressed by this sign.
Consider the famous singer Arianna Grande, who was born under the Cancer zodiac sign and is known for the intensity of her feelings. When viewed through the lens of her ever-evolving life, it’s possible that some people will label her as moody.
Cancer zodiac signs are loyal, imaginative, tenacious, and sympathetic. It can be challenging to deal with their extreme mood swings, pessimism, and manipulative nature.
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How To Deal With a Moody Cancer Man
1. Take note of what he says.
Your Cancer requires reassurance from you that you comprehend what he is going through at this time. When your guy is in a bad mood, it’s easy to assume that he just wants some space from you, but what he really wants is for you to listen to what he has to say. Put an end to distractions and pay your partner the full attention he deserves. Simply listening to what he has to say can go a long way toward helping him feel supported.
If he is reluctant to talk, try saying something encouraging to him like, “I’ve picked up that you’ve been keeping a very low profile today. How are things going for you?”
2. Be patient.
Because Cancers dislike the feeling of being vulnerable, you should make room for him to open up. If it’s obvious that he’s upset or agitated, you shouldn’t bombard him with questions as to what is going on in the situation. Make it abundantly clear that you are available to talk, but allow him to proceed at his own rate when he does so. If you let him finish what he was saying without interrupting him to defend yourself or explain something, he will probably appreciate it.
Your Cancer man will withdraw into himself if he believes that you are going to start a fight. It is in both of your best interests to wait for him to finish sharing what’s on his thought before engaging in a level-headed conversation with him.
3. If you have offended him in any way, please apologize.
Demonstrate to your Cancer man that you have an understanding of what has upset him. Due to the fact that they are a water sign and are governed by the Moon, which is the planet associated with feelings, Cancers are known to be one of the most intuitive signs in the zodiac. He is not the type to ignore a problem by pretending it doesn’t exist or by sweeping it under the rug. He has a very sensitive nature, and it is imperative that you acknowledge this and express contrition if you have, in any way, caused him emotional distress.
You might, for instance, say something like, “I’m sorry that the amount of time I spent with my friends was upsetting to you. It’s actually the case that I haven’t been there for you as much lately. I apologize for that. I will make an effort to do better in the future, or I apologize if I came across as being too abrupt earlier. I just wanted to try to explain how I’m currently feeling.”
4. Make an effort to keep a level head around him.
Cancers despise friction and tension, so try to maintain as much tranquility as possible. Because Cancers are so sensitive, anger and conflict are likely to make them feel very uneasy. Maintain your composure when interacting with him and the people around you if you get the impression that he’s in a bad mood. When your feelings are at an all-time high, you should try to calm yourself down by taking some slow, deep breaths, visualizing something calming, or counting to ten.
If you are aggressive or argumentative with other people, your Cancer man will pick up on it and become even more agitated.
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5. Show him an abundance of affection.
Your guy requires a lot of reassurance before he can get out of this funk he’s in. Cancers place a high value on relationships, despite the fact that they frequently experience feelings of inadequacy within them. Your man requires a great deal of positive reinforcement in the form of signs that demonstrate that you sincerely like him and desire to be with him. If he is withdrawn or reserved, it’s possible that he isn’t getting the attention and care that he requires.
You should make it a point to pleasantly surprise him with some of his favorite foods, to cuddle up with him at the night, or send him a sweet note via text message during the day.
6. Let him know how much you value his contribution.
When he doesn’t think he’s being valued, a Cancer man’s mood can change dramatically. It’s understandable that this guy, who consistently puts others’ wants and needs before his own, occasionally feels neglected. Remind your guy how awesome he is in your eyes. Compliments and praise not only help him feel more confident but also demonstrate that you are paying attention to him.
Say something deep and meaningful like, “I thought it was really cool how you went up to the guy who was standing by himself at the party and started a conversation with him. I think you did a great job of putting him at ease. You’re a thoughtful person.”
7. Communicate to him how you are feeling.
Cancers, in order to feel safe, require honest and open communication. If your man has all of a sudden become withdrawn or closed off, it’s possible that he’s looking for a more emotional connection. It’s possible that he has doubts about your emotions; therefore, you should have an honest conversation about how you and he are doing. It is really beneficial to your relationship with a Cancer man to talk about how you feel emotionally.
You could, for instance, say something like, “Hey, it seems like we haven’t had much time for each other as of late. Do you wish to talk?” or, “We both appear to have been very busy. Please let me know how things are going for you.”
8. Don’t forget to schedule some quality time with him.
If he feels ignored, a Cancer man might withdraw from others or retreat into his shell. Make sure you carve out some time in your schedule to spend solely with your boyfriend. You could schedule regular date nights with him, or you could take him by complete surprise by showing up at his place of employment. The fact that you make it a priority to see him demonstrates to him how important he is to you.
It doesn’t matter where you are in your relationship with the Cancer man; making time to spend with each other is vitally important at all stages.
9. Always be dependable and consistent.
Tell the Cancer man in your life that he can always count on you to be there for him. If he’s in a particularly foul mood, you might get the impression that your boyfriend is trying to distance himself from you. Make it abundantly clear to him that he can rely on you. Cancers are notorious for their extreme insecurity, even to the point where it causes them to destroy relationships.
Be dependable by doing things like answering his calls, responding to his texts, and showing up on time for dates.
10. Show him your commitment.
Cancers place a high value on their personal connections, so demonstrate your commitment to him. Your Cancer male probably makes a big deal out of birthdays and anniversaries. Keep in mind the significant dates in his life, and make an effort to form relationships with the people who are important to him.
Consider introducing yourself to his family and making an effort to get along with them. Spend time with his friends, and don’t forget to introduce him to your close circle of friends. This will let him know that he is a priority in your life.
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How To Deal With a Moody Cancer Man by Theresa Alice