Gemini Man Hot And Cold – The Reasons

Gemini Man Hot And Cold

Have you ever met a Gemini guy who was once hot but is now rather unimpressive and flaky? The dual nature of the Gemini man may explain why he struggles to maintain consistency. Continue reading for more knowledge on why your Gemini man is constantly hot and cold and what you can do about it.

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Gemini Man Hot And Cold

His Perspective

Gemini men are extremely flirtatious and have no desire to settle down. However, they can and do become smitten by a nice girl from time to time. The thrill, like any other, may cause him to lose his analytical thinking.

Gemini men are dual in nature, with one side carefree, playful, and wanting a range of women to choose from. This is in his nature. This is not to say that all Gemini male are players, but he does have that side to him.

Each Gemini guy will have to determine whether or not he wants to commit or continue looking for love. Regrettably, they aren’t always forthright about their intentions.

It’s possible that he simply doesn’t know what he wants and thus doesn’t know how to be upfront or what to say. In this case, he will be satisfied and believe that everything is going well at first.

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Even if it’s just a passing fancy, he’ll feel as if he’s falling in love. He knows he must take things slowly, but he’ll ignore that because he’s having so much fun.

Gemini is impulsive and enjoys taking chances. Diving into something with somebody is a hazard that they will take if they like the person.

However, just like others, the feelings of attraction fade, he no longer feels excited, and he begins to question what he’s doing. That’s when he begins to slowly withdraw.

The part of him that remembers he doesn’t want to commit and will instead play his hand of cards will kick in, and you’ll notice him beginning to back out of dates, calls, messages, and so on.

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There Isn’t Enough “Me” Time

Gemini men are usually very busy. They would like to keep their brain cells stimulated and avoid boredom. He also enjoys spending time alone.

He wants to be able to do his own thing without feeling as if someone is attempting to put a damper on his pleasure or career choices. He will do whatever it takes to find some “separation.”

It’s not that he would want to end the relationship, but he may need some alone time that you don’t question. He might want to take a break from texting you every day. He’s tired of the same old thing.

Gemini men dislike routine and dislike planning their lives minute by minute. Planning ahead with him is risky since he might change his mind and cancel, or he may prefer to do something else.

This can be very frustrating, so give him some space to do his own thing and he’ll return to you feeling energized, restored, and willing to spend time with you.

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He’s Tired of You

If both of you have been spending a lot of time together, he will eventually feel closed in and bored. There’s only so much you and your partner can accomplish together before you’re forced to separate.

Remember that Gemini men are self-sufficient and seek a self-sufficient woman. He wants a mate who will go off and do her own stuff and then return to him when she’s finished.

He desires that time apart, as well as for you two to have friends apart from each other. Again, it isn’t about him not being interested in you.

It’s more likely that he’s becoming bored or stressed. As you may recall, he avoids boredom like the disease. While he enjoys playing house, he also enjoys getting away from it all.

Try and spend time off from each other when you can and come up with new and exciting things to do when you two are together again. He will appreciate your efforts and may be able to save the relationship.

Do something quick though because if he starts getting too bored; it may be when he chooses to look somewhere else for entertainment or thrills. It could be in another female’s arms or it could result in a breakup.

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Problems in Breaking Up

The Gemini man is yet another sign who hates being the bearer of bad news or being the bad guy. When a Gemini guy needs to break up but has not said it, he will show you.

He’ll vanish for long periods of time, and he will stop calling, he will refuse to answer text messages, and so on.

Watch out for these warning signs because if he ends up going to such lengths, it implies he is on the verge of wanting out. Tell him what you’ve noticed so that he can let you know what is going on.

Notify him how you feel about the relationship & where you want it to go, and then ask him to be specific about how he feels and where he sees things going.

He may refuse to respond, but you must step forward and say, “I have to know where this is going.” At that moment, he should either tell you that he wants to end the relationship or suggest a solution to attempt to fix it.

I sincerely hope it helps you gain a better understanding of what a Gemini guy is like and how he may behave in relationships, including why he may go hot and cold.

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Gemini Man Hot And Cold by Theresa Alice