Cancer Man Lack Of Communication

One of Mr. Cancer’s strongest qualities is that he pays attention to what others have to say. He is hoping to pick up on the tenor of the conversation and get a sense of how the people around him are feeling. When he really needs to get his point across, this gives him a huge leg up. Of course, he is an empathetic person at heart, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have his own viewpoints. Just by talking to you nicely, he’s already won you over.

DRAWING YOU OUT

It’s possible that he’ll pepper you with questions because he’s interested in learning more about who you are and the circumstances surrounding the situation he’s in. Is he seriously interested in hearing your point of view? Yes, but perhaps not to the extent that you are imagining. Cancer exercises extreme caution in all aspects of life. He will only take action or show emotion if he is confident in his decision.

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Cancer Man Lack Of Communication

WOULD YOU PREFER TO BE THE ONE WHO SPEAKS?

That’s a difficult question. He enjoys having a conversation with someone who is interesting and lively, but he dislikes it when that person dominates the conversation to the point where he is unable to contribute anything new. Inquire about his work, his interests outside of work, and his loved ones (for they are probably important to him). It’s possible that he’ll start opening up to you, but if you press him too hard too fast, he might feel uncomfortable.

READING BODY LANGUAGE

This guy seems to pick up on the subtle cues that we all give off. Even though you are appearing very upbeat and enthusiastic, he will notice the tension in your shoulders and respond to it accordingly. He will understand that he should not get too close to you even if you are talking to him in a friendly manner but are leaning away from him slightly.

If you are interested in him and want him to make the first move, then make sure that your gestures and the way that you hold yourself are warm and relaxed. This will encourage him to approach you. Make sure to look him in the eye and give him a firm handshake if you want him to become your friend. He will ‘hear’ that message loud and clear.

CANCER ENJOYS

• Understanding more about you
• Being listened to
• A feeling of really connecting with one another
• Having an awareness of the challenges he faces

CANCER HATES

• A negative environment
• False sincerity – he is able to detect it and will feel uneasy about it.
• Confrontation, unless he has deliberately chosen to take on something else.

TRYING TO WIN AN ARGUMENT WITH CANCER

Cancer dislikes getting into arguments, but if he decides to fight, you can be sure he’ll be armed with more weaponry than you can possibly imagine.

It’s possible that he has strong feelings about the issue, and it might be very important to him on a personal level.

It’s likely that he’s been giving this issue some thought, and it’s possible that he’ll come into the discussion extremely well prepared.

He is already aware of how you are feeling as well as some of what you are going to say, and he is prepared with answers.

He uses emotional manipulation and plays on your sympathies.

You need to demonstrate some degree of empathy by being able to understand and reason with him.

Make sure you express your feelings as well; don’t pretend to be completely ‘logical’ in your approach.

Be sincere; he can see through any act of pretense and will likely confront you about it.

I hope you can come to an agreement. If he sees that you have paid attention to him and understood what he is saying, he will be much more likely to comply with your request.

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CANCER MAN COMMUNICATIONS

FACE TO FACE: He would much rather see your face, and he is able to gather just as much information from the way you look into his eyes as he does from what you say. On the other hand, if he finds himself uncomfortable in any way, he might choose to navigate the situation in a different way. This might not be because he wants to steer clear of you at all costs; in fact, it might be the exact opposite. It’s possible that all he wants to do is verify some information.

ON THE PHONE: He enjoys engaging in some harmless chitchat, and as a result, he’ll talk to you on the phone if he senses that the two of you are growing closer to one another and developing a stronger rapport. However, he will become impatient if it continues for an excessive amount of time because, despite being sensitive, he is also a man of action.

E-MAILS/TEXTS/FACETIME ETC: If he is a more reserved Cancer, he may shield himself from others by hiding behind technology; however, for him, technology is primarily a means to an end. People are more appealing to him than machines. But he appreciates any means of long-distance contact with family and friends.

LETTERS: He appreciates the importance of having a tangible, personal memento to keep, as he too has a tendency to hoard items with sentimental value. You might get a few lines in certain situations, and you can count on a carefully selected card to come through for you on those rare and important occasions.

SPEECH-MAKING: It’s possible that this will terrify him to the point that he’ll do anything he can to avoid it. But if he has to deal with it, he’ll study and prepare thoroughly. As soon as he is able to let go and connect with his audience, he will shine.

PARTIES: He’s not the biggest party animal, unless he’s with his familiar crowd, in which case he’ll really let his guard down and enjoy himself to the fullest extent. When he first meets a new person, he has a tendency to keep his distance until he gets to know them better. The atmosphere can bring out a different side in him.

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Cancer Man Lack Of Communication by Theresa Alice