How Long To Wait Before Getting Back Together?

Are you asking how long to wait before getting back together? It is impossible to predict how long it will take you to get your ex back in the world of exes because there are so many moving factors involved.

Most couples re-establish their relationship within 1 to 6 months of their breakup. In this data, only long-term relationships are included.

To be more precise, 58.2% of those who reconciled and remained together with their ex-partner did so within 1 to 6 months of their breakup. Instinct dictates that if you want your ex-bf back, you do everything you can to get him back.

Your instincts will lead you to believe things like,

The faster I get my ex back, the faster I’ll be free of this agony.
If I don’t get my ex back quickly, they’ll either move on or find somebody else.

When a panicked mind is going through the grief of a breakup, these types of thinking make a lot of sense.

However, it is far better to wait after a relationship breakdown. Wait for things to calm down before deciding whether or not your ex is truly the right guy for you. Allow your ex some time to miss you. Wait until you’ve rebuilt your self-esteem and can think clearly again. Wait until you’ve gained some perspective on your previous relationship and your life.

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How Long To Wait Before Getting Back Together?

Why Wait To Try To Reunite With An Ex?

REASON 1: YOU ARE ADDICTED TO YOUR EX-RELATIONSHIP

Did you know that the pain of a breakup is connected with the same part of your brain that is associated with drug addiction?

Isn’t it true that some people are addicted to their partners? This addiction, on the other hand, is very real. And the best way to deal with any addiction is to abstain from the drug.

I know you would like your ex back and see no point in avoiding them if all you want to do is end up in their arms. But, do you truly believe it is the healthiest option for you?

Assume you were a heroin addict. And then there was nowhere to buy heroin. Would you seize the opportunity to give up your addiction, or would you take trips to a foreign country just to satisfy your addiction?

Before you get back together, you need to be sure you love your ex or are just addicted to them. There’s no point returning to a bad habit you’ve kicked.

How do you know if you want to rekindle your relationship for the correct reasons? Here are a few pointers to get you started.

Keep in mind the nature of your relationship with your ex. Bear in mind the amount of time you spend together. Did you feel good about yourself when you were together, or did you ever feel insecure? Your ex is likely to be addicted to you if you have ever felt insecure while being with him. If, on the other hand, your ex made you feel protected, contented, and confident about yourself, there is a chance that he or she is worth trying to get back together with.

Do you despise being alone? Do you feel bad about yourself when you wake up alone in the morning? Do you find yourself wishing your ex was with you right now because you see other couples? And if so, you’re probably addicted to relationships. There is nothing about your ex that piques your interest enough to make you want to get back with them.

It’s comparable to a heroin addict experiencing symptoms of withdrawal after quitting. They believe that the only thing that can make them feel good is heroin. In reality, it’s the heroin that’s responsible for their current state of mind.

REASON 2: YOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL HEALTH

As previously stated, you are not in a position to make major life decisions following a breakup. And your relationship with your ex may not be as strong as you thought. Even so, if your relationship with your old boyfriend was wonderful and reuniting with them is a fantastic idea, you must take some time apart before reuniting.

The person who has just been dumped by the love of their life is likely to become desperate and needy. It’s not their fault, it’s everyone’s instinct to act this way. Everything they do and every word coming out of their mouth exudes neediness and insecurity, even if they aren’t aware of it at the time.

This neediness is very unattractive. Your ex probably has a lot of reasons not to be with you (possibly insecurity and neediness were among them), so if you demonstrate to them the desperate, insecure, needy side of you, you are much more likely to push them away instead of winning them back.

I could tell you to stop acting desperate and needy, but the reality is that if you are insecure and unhappy on the inside, it will show on the outside. You can exert great effort to control your actions, but your face and voice will reveal your true identity. Your ex will see through it.

A thirty-day period of reflection and self-improvement will result in you feeling significantly more secure and confident about your own abilities. And, like before, you will exude strength and confidence from your face, which your ex will notice.

If you feel desperate or needy to get your ex back, don’t beat yourself up about it. Don’t worry if you think you’ve already pushed your ex away by getting desperate or needy; this does not necessarily mean you can’t get them back. This is a very common response to a breakup.

And the most effective way of stopping feeling desperate after a breakup is to cut off all contact with your ex and concentrate on your own emotional and mental well-being. As you go through this process, it’s critical that you treat yourself with compassion and remain mindful of the emotions and thoughts that arise.

REASON 3: THE NUMBERS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES

We discovered that most people who get their ex back took at least one month to reconcile. The majority of people who reconciled did so within 1 to 6 months of their breakup.

It’s worth noting that these people reconciled and remained in long-term relationships with their ex. Many of the study’s participants broke up again after getting back together, and the data presented above does not include them.

The conclusion is clear: Many people who get back together in a healthy relationship usually wait after a breakup before attempting to get back together. And the wait time is generally at least one month.

REASON 4: YOUR EX & YOUR POST RELATIONSHIP BREAKDOWN DYNAMICS

If you’re reading this, it’s likely that your ex has broken up with you. Even if you ended things with your ex, you would want to rekindle your relationship, but your ex turned you down. No matter which scenario you find yourself in, your ex retains complete control over your post-breakup relationship. They are the ones who abandoned you, and you are the ones who are unhappy without them.

You’re the one who has a strong attachment to your ex and is constantly thinking about them.

You’re the one who will go to any length to re-establish contact with them.

If you wished to get over the relationship breakdown and continue moving on, I would have advised you to ignore the post-breakup relationship and simply move on with your life. However, if you choose to get your ex back, you should be aware of this post-breakup relationship.

If you try to call or text your ex, beg, plead, or do anything else that shows how eager and desperate you are without him, your ex has control over this post-breakup relationship. Just by breaking off contact with him, you are re-establishing equilibrium in the push-pull dynamics.

Most of the time, your ex is just as depressed as you are after the breakup. It’s just that if you were desperate, it may have given them the impression that he could have you whenever he wanted; that he had complete control. The truth that they can have you back at any time may have made it a bit easier for them to cope with the pain of the breakup, even though they are still hurting from it.

It should be noted that it does not apply to every situation. Even if your ex knows you want them back, he may still be unhappy. If he is not, it’s best not to communicate with him until you have both had some space or time away from each other to regain your perspective.

By ceasing all communication with them, you’re offering your ex exactly what they wanted. A life that does not include you. And this isn’t necessarily a bad thing (even if you want to get back to them).

Making space between you will give you both some perspective on the breakup, your relationship, and how you genuinely feel about each other.

Here’s what you should do…

Regardless of how hopeless you may feel right now, there is still a light at the end of the tunnel: it has been proved time and time that more than 90% of any and all relationships can be saved. But only if you’re sure what you’re doing…

If you use the techniques in this video, you will be surprised at how simple it is to rekindle the “magic” and “spark” you two had when you first kissed…

You’ll be surprised at how much he wants to contact you, message you, and spend the entire night with you.

How Long To Wait Before Getting Back Together? by Theresa Alice