What Makes a Woman Attractive and Sexy, physically, intellectually, and emotionally!
Yes, some women are born sexier than you — but that doesn’t mean you can’t GROW sexier than them! Being sexy isn’t just about your body type — it’s also about your personality and your sensuality.
Ask any man in the dating game today, and he’ll tell you — there’s a real shortage of sensual women in society today, just as there’s a shortage of real, emotionally-mature men!
But by “sexy,” I’m not talking about JUST being physically sexy…
I’m talking about being sexy in ALL areas of your life. I want you to LOOK sexy, I want you to FEEL sexy, I want you to SOUND sexy, I want you to THINK sexy, I want you to LIVE sexy.
So let me ask you: Do you want to be TRULY sexy?
If you answer is “yes,” then let’s get started! Let’s begin the newsletter by discussing one of the most common, most basic, and perhaps most annoying problems we encounter in the dating game:
SOME WOMEN ARE SEXIER THAN WE ARE
That’s right — some women seem to have been BORN attractive.
At first glance, they’re immediately sexy, beautiful, and sensual. And yes, hey enjoy an unfair edge in the dating game — they get most of the attention from the men!
What about the rest of us? Are we relegated to the sidelines, watching as these women swallow up all the attention from the men?
Or is there something we can do to level the playing field a little bit?
Fortunately, there IS something we can do about the problem. After all, is physical attraction the only thing that matters in the dating game? Nope!
Certainly, it may make things start — but it will do a horrible job at completing it. Once you know of certain attractive, gorgeous women who usually have bad relationships with guys, you no doubt know what I’m saying.
Nope, you cannot depend on your appearance alone. You will need to be sexy in other parts of your life, too! Mainly because here is the answer to the problem:
IT’S WHAT HE DISCOVERS LATER THAT MAKES HIM FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU!
Let’s talk a bit about the two kinds of Men in the dating game. I believe there e only two types — little boys and real men.
little boys.
Little boys tend to be non-committing. They are players who enter in the dating scene to chase skirts, and are really after “trophy girlfriends.”
You will find that once they have had their fun with one particular attractive lady, they will proceed to another.
Real men.
Real men, on the flip side, are commitment-ready. They will value sexy women, consider they are in it for the long term, they subconsciously also search for various other attributes in the women they meet up with.
These are the men who are mature enough to know how to handle a real relationship.
Now tell me — which do you want? little boys or real men.
I hope it’s real men — it’s the ONLY choice to make if you want some real romantic happiness in your future!
And to attract the real men out there, you’ll need MORE than just to look sexy. Here are a few tips to help you become a little more sexy on the inside.
Three tips on how to be a little sexier and sensual to the men you meet.
#1 – NO DRAMA
Real men would much rather not have any amount of drama in their relationships — it wastes his time, it doesn’t get you what you want, and it’s downright annoying. I’m pretty sure even the little boys hate it!
By the way, it’s important to define drama NOT from OUR perspective, but from the GUY’S perspective!
We might think “drama” consists of harsh criticism, crying, and temper tantrums.
But you know what? To a guy, even simple RANTING qualifies as drama!
Now some of you might ask, “Alex, isn’t ranting NORMAL for us?”
My answer is this: Yes and no.
Yes, it’s normal for us to rant. But NO, it’s NOT normal for us to rant to the men in our lives!
It’s probably okay once in a while, but for maximum satisfaction, save the ranting for your girlfriends.
Your man will want your relationship to be a place of relaxation and zen — and ranting (or any other kind of drama, for
that matter) will just make him want to walk away.
So you basically have two choices. You can choose to be whiny and dramatic, totally dependent on your man for your
happiness.
#2 – STAND ON YOUR OWN TWO FEET
At this moment I do not watch a lot of Television programs aside from the Discovery channels, however, I do watch selected shows throughout my downtime.
And in the majority of my personal favorite shows, I have observed that the best, most likeable women lead tend to be strong, independent ladies who are able to stand up for themselves.
I still think TV is one of the biggest time-wasters in life today, which is why I found it surprising to find something USEFUL out of soap operas and crime shows…
It’s true — independent women are SEXY! It’s absolutely attractive to a man when he knows he doesn’t have to babysit his girlfriend all the time.
Sure, we like being spoiled once in a while.
However it is NOT alright if it turns into a habit or perhaps addiction! When you begin getting worried or angry whenever your boyfriend does not phone or text message you more than once per day, that is a bad indication!
Therefore learn how to stand on your very own two feet. The very next time you really feel like shouting, complaining, or playing the blame game, keep in mind — it isn’t sexy!
If you want to be truly sexy, don’t complain — stand up and do something about it!
#3 – DON’T STOP GROWING
Too many of us make the mistake of wanting to “settle down.”
It’s fine to want a comfortable life, but remember — if you’re TOO comfortable, you might risk becoming boring and predictable. And that’s something most real men don’t want in their life partners!
Real men always prefer having interesting women as their partners through life. They want a woman who shares her passion for all things new.
That’s why it’s important to keep growing as a person. It’s important to get SEXIER with time — physically, intellectually, and emotionally!