Is He Cheating On Me Tarot
You always know when you suspect something (or someone) is going on in your relationship that you aren’t aware of.
I usually recommend that you have an honest conversation with your partner, but if you want a direct answer from the tarot, there are 2 tarot spreads to answer the question “Is he cheating?”
Both spreads are made up of only three cards. No ambiguity should result. Typically, the answer will be skewed toward the positive or negative. In reality, one card would be enough, but if you require additional information, use three.
Don’t Endanger Your Life!
Keep in mind that this is a tarot. You cannot and should not base your actions and statements on a handful of cards. Tarot can help you clarify your thoughts, but it is no substitute for dialogue and interaction between you and your companion.
I’m illustrating these spreads with the strangely beautiful Deviant Moon Tarot. It’s both dark and delightful, making it ideal for tracking down cheaters.
Spread of Truth or Deception
Three cards are arranged in a row from left to right.
- What exactly is the truth about our relationship?
- What exactly is the ruse?
- What is it that I already know to be true?
- Is he telling the truth to me? Tarot
Is he deceiving you? Reading Examples
Ashley and a Guy have been married for four years. Until recently, the marriage appeared to be stable, but she has recently developed a sense that something is wrong.
The Five of Wands represents the truth about the relationship.
Five of Swords is the deception.
What Ashley already knows is true: The Eight of Wands
The Five of Wands represents the truth of the relationship. This card informs Ashley that there are slight disagreements and problems. They are never addressed or dealt with, and as a result, they have managed to grow into dissatisfaction and competition between the pair. The Five of Wands can also represent conflict, with the seeker torn apart by conflicting emotions and external factors. That is confirmed by Ashley.
The Five of Swords represents deception, which can mean… deception. In many cases, the deceiver does not bother to conceal his wrongdoing. One of the things Ashley observed was an increase in the number of kilometers clocked up on her husband’s car. When she questioned him about it, he simply shrugged. She is unable to provide any additional hard proof that he is cheating. It’s feasible that the Five of Swords also represents deception.
The Eight of Wands represents what Ashley already knows deep within. This card represents hasty actions. Despite the fact that she claims she is prepared to act and divorce her husband, the card advises her to take a step back and consider her options. She doesn’t have any concrete evidence that her husband is cheating on her, and the cards don’t support her suspicions. Other factors are most likely to blame for their problems.
If I were to give Ashley advice, I would emphasize that they have permitted small disagreements to cloud their marriage and that she should encourage her husband to accompany her to a counselor so that they can address the issues that are the core of the problem. If it is discovered that he is cheating, she will be able to make decisions about what to do about it.
Is He Cheating On Me Tarot – Best Tarot Spreads for Infidelity Readings
Truth or Deception Spread
Historically, deception has been used to manipulate and conquer. When it comes to relationships, this is no less true. The Truth or Deception spread is used to explore a web of lies and truths.
Questions to Ponder
- Posture 1 – What do my spirit guides and other spiritual beings tell me about my partner?
- Position 2 – What secrets and lies does my partner have?
- Position 3 – What does my subconscious know that my conscious doesn’t?
Honest Answer Spread
It is difficult to be truly honest with oneself, but it is even more difficult to obtain honesty from someone who has chosen to keep hiding things from you. This three-card spread will provide the seeker with the truthful answer they deserve.
Questions to Ponder
- Position 1 – What is my partner trying to hide from me?
- Position 2 – What information should my partner reveal?
- Position 3 – Is my partner being unfaithful?
the spread of truthfulness
The Truthfulness spread is used to uncover information about any factor of a person’s life. If you want to know what’s true and what’s not in your relationship, try this six-card spread.
Questions to Ponder
- Position 1 – Is my partner deceiving me?
- Position 2 – What does my subconscious have to say about the truth?
- Position 3 – What are the sources of my skepticism?
- Position 4 – How significant is honesty in our relationship?
- Position 5 – How can I get my partner to tell me the truth?
- Position 6 – How should I proceed from here?
Past Present future spread
The Past, Present, & Future spread is a traditional tarot spread that’s been used for centuries by tarot readers. This spread is used when it is necessary to gain perspective into how the past influences (and will continue to affect) the present and future. If there have been issues in the past that have caused you to question whether your partner cheats or not, it is ideal to use this spread.
Questions to Ponder
- Position 1 – What past events made me doubt my relationship with my partner?
- Position 2 – How is our relationship doing right now?
- Position 3 – What is the Universe trying to tell me about my future relationship with my partner?
Tarot Card Meanings in Infidelity Tarot Readings
The Magician
It usually signifies taking action, being conscious, and having power in tarot. However, in a tarot reading about extramarital affairs, the Magician suggests deception and trickery.
Furthermore, to see the Magician in reverse could indicate that your partner is uncommitted. As a warning sign, they may be taking advantage of your relationship for their own benefit.
The High Priestess
In a broad sense, the High Priestess advises the seeker to listen to their intuition and receive advice from within. When you see this card in an infidelity reading, it’s a sign that you should listen to your intuition. If you already have strong suspicions about your companion, the High Priestess will confirm your fears that he or she is unfaithful.
Death
The Death card contains strong energy that represents endings and transitions. In an infidelity reading, Death indicates that you should think about leaving your partnership with your current partner.
The Devil
The Devil card shows a male and a female chained up next to a half-man, half-goat creature. This card is commonly associated with hopelessness, enslavement, materialism, and ignorance.
To see the Devil in a tarot reading about cheating is thus a clear indication that you’re in an unpleasant or harmful relationship. Your partner could be withholding information from you, leaving you in the dark. The card could also indicate that your partner is having sexual relations with someone else.
The Tower
The Tower represents abrupt change, liberation, fall, and revelation. This card has a negative connotation in general. It indicates abrupt changes or reversals in particular situations.
A reading with the Tower in it indicates that you will (or already have) an emotional outburst as a result of a secret that has been revealed unexpectedly in the relationship. This card is a direct indication that your companion is cheating on you.
The Moon
The Moon, like the Tower, provides a clear answer that your partner really is cheating on you. One such card represents your fears and apprehension.
In this particular instance, to see the Moon in a tarot reading indicates that you should gather your courage, open up your eyes, and remove yourself from your safety blanket. Don’t deceive yourself just to keep your illusions alive.
Judgment
When you see the Judgment card in a tarot reading about infidelity, it means you need to stand firm and make hard decisions. You may have already realized that your partner cheats on you and ended the relationship.
This card is now trying to encourage you to let go of your grief and try to forgive. You can only heal and start over by doing this.
The Three of Cups
In most interpretations, the Three of Cups represents finding companions or trying to form a group bond. This card depicts three women dancing while holding cups. To be honest, this card reminds you that three is a crowd and that the problems in your current relationship are probably due to a third party.
The Eight of Cups
The Eight of Cups is a card of transition and weariness. If you’re looking for a tarot reading to see if your partner is cheating on you, look for the Eight of Cups because it will give you an analysis of the current you’re currently in.
Your partner may be agitated and easily distracted. Your suspicion most likely grew when they began communicating with you less and less. The Eight of Cups suggests that your partner may be pulling away from you to avoid fighting.
The Seven of Swords
The Seven of Swords card depicts a man who appears to be fleeing after a successful robbery (symbolized by the swords he is carrying). It is said that the Seven of Swords represents the act of fleeing from one’s responsibilities and obligations, and also the act of deceiving or being duped. The presence of this card in an infidelity tarot reading is a telling sign that your disloyal partner is attempting to conceal a heinous secret.
Locating a Tarot Reader
When it comes to uncovering an unfaithful lover, it’s best to seek a tarot reading from a professional. They can assist you in learning the truth about your relationship. Self-reading the tarot, especially when dealing with sensitive issues, can prevent you from receiving unbiased advice.
Is He Cheating On Me Tarot by Theresa Alice