How To Make Conversation With Your Crush Over Text

1. Ensure that your text is short and to the point.

It is not necessary to immediately barrage your new love interest with a lengthy text message consisting of three scrolls right off the bat. In addition, brief texts make for excellent introductions because they afford the chance for playful banter. Which contributes to ensuring that the flow of your conversation is maintained.

So keep it brief. With no more than a handful of lines at most.

2. Ensure That He Is Left Wanting More.

Always make it your first priority to close the conversation. Why? Because being able to gracefully exit a scene at the appropriate time conveys a sense of complete self-assurance. Also, your life has some interesting things going on right now. Both of these are qualities that a man of high value finds to be very attractive in a woman.

Aside from that, if you are the one who always ends the conversation first, then you are the one who is in control of the situation and you hold all of the cards. And not just idly waiting for his response.

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3. Make sure your conversation is going somewhere.

When you are texting a guy for the first time, you want to make sure that the conversation is leading somewhere meaningful. If you don’t address this issue, the conversation you’re having is much more likely to lose steam and die out. Definitely not the conversation you had in mind with your crush.

Before you send him a message, you should think about the topic that you will be talking about with him. That way, you won’t find yourself in the mundane situation of asking someone “how are you,” which leads to a dead end in the conversation.

This not only helps you feel a little bit more in control, but it also helps you feel a little bit less anxious. While you’re getting past the initial uncomfortableness of the situation, make sure that the conversation you have with him is interesting and stays on topic.

4. Engage in Fun and Flirty Behavior.

If you want to start a flirtatious conversation with a guy, one of the fastest ways to do so is to engage in some playful banter with him. This is a strategy that men adore, and it almost always results in a response from the man being pursued.

You can let a guy know that you like him in a non-obtrusive way by starting out your interaction with him in a lighthearted and flirtatious manner. As something more than just a friend.

However, you should keep in mind that you don’t want to make an overly forceful first impression. Which could possibly convey the wrong message to him. Think of something elegant rather than something trashy.

An example of a flirtatious text...

“Watching a movie in which the main character resembles you… except, of course, that they are not nearly as cute…;)”

5. Refrain from sending him a series of texts all at once.

If you’ve already texted him, hold off on sending any more until you hear back from him.

You should also refrain from sending him three texts at once, as well as rapid-fire texts and machine gun texts. And that’s when you start sending multiple texts back-to-back.

It’s possible that you find it appealing. However, that tone is sure to appear as desperate and pathetic.

6. Do not refer to him by name.

People like to hear their own names because it makes them feel special. While it’s true that way in theory, in practice it’s not so. Texting is not covered by this rule.

In point of fact, after spending years researching what strategies work best when establishing new connections in the dating world, I strongly advise against using a person’s name in a text message. In addition to being unnatural and formal, it implies that you are a complete stranger.

Consider this: when you send a text message to a friend, do you address them by their name? No, this is not the case at all. It’s odd if you think about it. The same principle applies here. Only people you don’t know well or have no real connection to would ever refer to you by name.

You want your text conversations with a potential romantic interest to sound as warm and casual as possible. You can therefore proceed with sending him a text message in the same way that you would text a friend.

7. Remember to take into account the time of day.

Even though you obviously do not know his schedule, it is still important to think about the timing of your text. If you send a first text message very early in the morning on a weekday, for instance, the recipient may be less likely to reply. Also, keep this in mind once the emails and various other tasks of a hectic workday begin to pile up. It’s possible that he won’t even remember that he received a text from you.

In my experience, the best time to send him a text during the week is in the late afternoon or early evening. because he will have spent the majority of the day doing other things, and you will have a better chance of receiving a response from him.

These guidelines are not inflexible in any way. Midmorning or early afternoon is the best time to get a response on the weekends, but generally speaking, the middle of the morning is the best time.

Try not to send him texts too late at night. Which can give the impression that you are desperate or needy. Which you, of course, are not at all in any way.

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8. Keep your tone in mind at all times.

Texting is not the same as having a conversation with someone in person. Because we are unable to rely on the subtle cues, such as tone of voice and body language, that are normally used to ensure that we are communicating effectively. And are notoriously challenging to infer from the written word.

This means that the meaning of what you wrote could be misconstrued very easily. Including some carefully positioned emojis is one strategy for avoiding situations like this one. This will assist in adding more context and tone to the message you are sending.

Then, always double-check your texts before hitting the send button. This will guarantee that the overall tone is being conveyed accurately.

9. Stay away from Heavy Subject Matter.

It’s best to use flirty and lighthearted openers when starting a text conversation with a guy. Even though sharing deeply personal details is necessary for the development of a new relationship, it is best to do so in person whenever possible.

Instead, focus on connecting with each other over subjects that are more lifestyle related. Things like work, interests, music, books, shows, and so on and so forth.

10. If he doesn’t respond right away, you shouldn’t freak out about it.

I am aware that it can be extremely stressful and agonizing to send a text to him and then wait a short period of time before receiving a response from him. Nevertheless, it is critical to ensure that anxious thoughts are kept under control.

While it’s possible that your perfectly timed and worded text did its job, sometimes that’s not enough. You have no idea what’s going on with him at this point.

It does not necessarily mean that he does not like you simply because he does not text you immediately back. It merely indicates that he is unavailable at the present time.

Take a few slow, deep breaths, and then concentrate on bettering yourself in some way while you wait for a response.

11. Don’t Take Cover Behind Your Mobile Device.

The first step in getting in touch with the guy you have a crush on should be sending him a text message. However, it is not the best method for developing the kind of profound connection that can result in a significant long-term commitment.

If you care about this guy a lot, it is imperative that you make the effort to connect with him in other ways as well, such as by spending time together. As an example, over the phone, or even better, in person while out on a date.

If you’ve been texting for a while and the conversation seems to be going well, you might consider continuing it. And don’t be afraid to ask him to call you and take it to the next level.

The following is an example of how to convince him to call you rather than text you:

“That’s a really good question! You are aware that I have a faster speaking speed than my typing speed. Would you like to continue this discussion over the phone?…:)”

12. Avoid Using Sarcasm in Your Text.

It has been said that laughter is the best medicine. When it comes to texts, however, you need to keep in mind that jokes that are funny in real life may not always be funny in text form. The use of sarcasm is an excellent illustration of this. which frequently comes across in written communication as either sarcastic or passive-aggressive in tone.

When you were trying to start a conversation with a new guy, this is likely not what you originally had in mind.

13. Refrain from peppering him with a lot of questions.

It’s always a good idea to start a conversation with a question. In addition, as you go along, you should ask questions that are related to the topic. Nevertheless, refrain from sending endless questions. Because of the possibility that it will cause your conversation to start to feel more like an interview or an interrogation.

In addition to that, ensure that you also share some information about yourself as you progress through the conversation. As it will give him an opportunity to learn more about you through his questions.

14. Don’t Keep Him Waiting For Your Reply For Too Long.

Flow is essential when you’re trying to start up a conversation. The same as when you’re trying to decide when it will be appropriate to send him the very first message you’ve written. Make sure you have enough time to have a meaningful conversation with him.

Having said that, there is no requirement that you reply right away. Your conversation absolutely needs to have a chance to go with the flow. This is essential because it would look bad if he responded to you straight away and you took hours to respond. There is a risk of coming across as cold or as someone who is just playing games.

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How To Make Conversation With Your Crush by Theresa Alice