Do Geminis Go Back To Their Exes

Geminis are indecisive about their life choices. They are eager to learn new things and are constantly searching for exciting new experiences. For once in their lives, they made a decision with absolute certainty, so it’s understandable if they’re having difficulty moving on from their past relationship. There won’t be any difficulty in moving on, but they’ll be very attached to the past and the memories of their ex-partner.

Gemini man has a difficult time moving on from his ex-girlfriend. So, they will go back to their exes, particularly if their other signs (for example, the moon and Venus) are compassionate and care about giving relationships a second chance.

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Do Geminis Go Back To Their Exes

Here are some reasons why Gemini can’t get over his Ex…

1. How He Deals With Heartbreak

Being alone is something he can’t do after a breakup.

He’s laughing when he should be crying. His ex-girlfriend may receive a phone call from him at 3:00 a.m. crying, but he will be laughing by the morning after. He starts acting illogically when he realizes his relationship was illogical.

It is true that a break-up sends him on an emotional roller coaster at first. It’s because he doesn’t know how to deal with his emotions. Only joking about himself and his ex-gf can help him get over the painful emotions.

2. How Much Time He Requires

Gemini is the only zodiac sign whose break-ups never follow a pattern. It makes sense, given that he hates repetition and routine, and it’s also why it can take him up to a month to get over an ex.

He is sometimes quick to move on and date someone new, while other times he can forget the ex but is still not prepared to put himself back on the field. With a Gemini, you never know, but he is an expert at getting over people.

3. The Feeling He Can’t Get Rid Of

Gemini is always forced to adopt a different persona based on who he is with. He is constantly aware that he must adapt to other situations and people.

And he really can’t get over his ex since they’re the only ones who could make him feel comfortable just being himself when they were together.

4. He Doesn’t Want To Lose

He does not easily let go of past relationships because he doesn’t want to lose anybody, no matter how terrifying they were to him.

He is always trying to keep people in his life and keep them on good terms, so when someone unexpectedly leaves his life, it makes him very sad.

It also has something to do with the fact that Geminis are social beings. They enjoy having large groups of friends and are frequently in good relationships with everyone. So it’s no surprise that losing someone they care about must be heartbreaking for them. Even if that person was vile and terrifying to them, they are unable to let go of them.

Therefore, they always will make an effort to stay in touch with everybody they know. They may also become the most vexing ex-boyfriends, as they will do everything in their power to reclaim the love of their life.

How To Get A Gemini Man To Want You Back in the Relationship

1. Try to be exciting.

If your relationship with your Gemini ex was getting stale, now is the time to prove to them that you’re still up for some excitement.

One way to do this is to say “yes” to whatever he suggests, whether it’s a daytime or evening out. It may also imply developing new interests that your ex had no idea you had.

Being interesting means you have something to say. You should try to surprise your ex by acting in ways he wouldn’t expect when you talk to him. The wheels are going to start turning as a result of that.

2. Give him space.

Simply put, Geminis crave freedom. If he felt that the relationship wasn’t giving him what he needed, he will be unwilling to open himself up to you again. In the same way, he might not want to date again if he thinks you are pressuring him.

To prevent this from happening, try not to contact him too frequently. Yes, you should communicate with him in an open and honest manner; however, you should not send him more than a dozen text messages a day or ask to hang out with him every weekend.

Let him respond when he’s ready. If he doesn’t, he’s either given up or needs to be prodded a little more.

3. Demonstrate to him that you are unique.

It need not be as dramatic as showing that you’ve completely changed. This is something to highlight if you feel you have achieved this. A change of appearance that signals a change in persona can be very effective in regaining the Gemini’s attention.

If there was something about the previous relationship that he didn’t enjoy, you should make an effort to convince him that things won’t be the same between the two of you this time.

In other words, if you have a tendency to be overly clingy, you should show that you are capable of taking care of yourself by putting your own life first. Take the time to actively listen to and engage with what he says during your next coffee date to make up for the last time he felt unheard. Showing him how you’ve transformed will pique his interest and get his attention.

4. Ensure that he is aware of your desire to give it another shot.

If he’s really driven, he may decide to go after you on his own and give it another shot. But he might not know what to do or his mind might be split between two options: try again or give up for good.

Just be careful how you go about letting him know that you two want to get back together.

You have the option of telling him how you really feel, but only after you’ve established the groundwork and given him a taste of the new and improved you.

It’s possible that he’ll ask you about it; if he does, be forthright and honest about what you’d like to happen. Sincerity is the key word here. Maintain an honest relationship with him. He is not interested in playing games.

5. Remain calm and collected in any situation.

If he is aware that you want him back, a Gemini man may put you through a test. Every once in a while, he might try to annoy you with comments meant to provoke an angry reaction. Or he might put you in a bad mood.

Do not immediately draw the conclusion that he is attempting to push you away from him. It is best to assume that he is just doing what he does, which could be anything from testing the waters to monitoring your responses.

You must not, under any circumstances, allow him to go overboard. Get him to stop his nonsense talking whenever it’s required. But at the same time, you should make an effort to avoid being overly sensitive. He requires an emotionally strong partner, one who is able to deal with the ups and downs of his nature.

6. Remain in control of your feelings.

You might already be aware of this, but he is not very good at reacting properly to various feelings. So putting on a really emotional show for him might not go over so well.

It’s possible that tears will make him uncomfortable, and passionate assertions of undying love may be too much for him to bear. When you are interacting with him, it is best to maintain a level of calmness regardless of how you are feeling.

I understand how challenging that may be. It’s counterproductive to control in your emotions when communicating constructively with your ex.

But take it from me, you want to help relieve as much of the pressure as you possibly can. He simply wants to take it slow and give himself time to think about his own emotions.

7. Don’t act like it’s everything.

Perhaps the most important thing to remember is not to give the impression that you are overly interested in seeing him again. He has a low tolerance for neediness.

Maintain a fairly full schedule, and try to fit him in somewhere in the middle of it. Do not feel obligated to respond to his texts immediately, especially if they come at odd hours or on consecutive days of the weekend. Keep in mind that he is susceptible to change. It’s possible that he’s just remembering good times and that after you decide to engage him, he’ll come to a different conclusion.

Keep your focus on the objective by placing it on the back burner. You need to make him realize that you’ve got what it takes to get by without him. That will drive him nuts.

Do you want to learn more? Talking to a Gemini can be difficult due to the fact that they are likely to tell you several different versions of the same story. As you can imagine, this can lead to confusion.

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Do Geminis Go Back To Their Exes by Theresa Alice