Cut Him Off He Will Miss You

If a man broke up with you, that’s a bit of a shock. And you don’t know what to do.

I understand that you love nothing more than that he comes back to you. But in this article, I’m going to get you back to reality. And help you as far as my experience as a dating coach allows.

Because I am keen to advise you in honor and trust.

There are certainly ways to ensure that he misses you.

But they are not what you think.

“You were lied to.”

Women’s magazines and dating coaches sell nonsense. Men will never go against it because they find it unmanly.

But making a man long for you is both easier and harder than you have imagined.

You can learn how to do it from the 12 tips below.

And I assume that it is between you and your ex. And that the main thing to do is to get it back.

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Tip 1: Realize that most break-ups are final

Do you know what I really dislike?

Dating coaches who ask you to pay for an “ex back” program.

I will not link to these crooks. But let me explain why I’m not a fan of it.

What these people don’t tell you is that the vast majority of break-ups are final.

It only works out in a very small percentage.

And these people take this seriously.

They sell you such a course under the heading that it will “ always manage to get your ex back in any situation. But this is statistically impossible …

… And I notice that in my inbox every day.

I regularly receive emails from women who are completely upset.

Their partner just let them down. Or at least, just….

After all, it is a few months out. But the aftermath of that relationship was appalling.

She went out of her way to get it back. And that is quite normal. Because if you love someone a lot, and this person disappears from your life, you want to do everything to get this man back.

And because of all the emotional pressure …

… From anger to sadness, combined with an enormous desire….

… You can no longer think logically about how best to approach this.

I often receive emails in which women write to me:

• They sent their ex 1000 texts (as a romantic gesture) but he does not respond.
• They never think to find someone like him again – and have posted this on their Facebook.
• Over the past few months had seen their relationship turn into a train wreck, but made every effort to recover.

I always have to tell those women that they are unlikely to get their husbands back. Not only because the above situations are downright hopeless.

Even when the relationship is in good shape, the chances are relatively small.

Those women can then end up with a dating coach who is happy to make fun of them.

Who tells them that it is possible to always get your ex back? No matter how bad the situation is. And no matter how hard he told you he doesn’t want to know anything about you.

That is of course not realistic at all. Because if I can’t – with over eight years of experience and thousands of people I’ve successfully coached – how are those more inexperienced crooks going to succeed?

And that brings us to tip 2:

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Tip 2: A male whisperer? It does not exist.

I can’t change your ex. And I can’t suddenly make him fall in love with you again. Anyone who says he can do that is a liar.

Especially if the relationship has systematically broken, and you are now looking for a way to get it back. Then I must disappoint you. There is very little you can do.

And I’m going to teach you how to do this in the rest of this article.

But you shouldn’t misunderstand this as an easy way to get your ex back. Think of it as a way of increasing the likelihood of reminding him of you.

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Tip 3: Make sure you sport it out

To make sure your ex misses you, the first thing is to feel good again.

He fell in love with a strong, independent woman. Not a woman who is sitting on the couch, sloshing white tea, in love.

Do you understand?

I can’t blame you. God knows that I can’t enjoy myself when I have heartbreak.

But do not tell further:

For the rest of the world, I pretend to be made of steel.

These kinds of emotions are quite normal. Everyone goes through them. And at the same time, a lot of tension is built up in your body.

Now you have two choices:

Are you going to use that tension to get out stronger, or to eat yourself?

“ By exercising you ensure that you convert that energy into something positive. ”

So you want to make sure your friend misses you …

…What do you think of this?

• Become the most positive woman on earth. By exercising you lose your emotions, just when they are rampant. It is one of my most important tips for
  dealing with heartbreak.
• You focus your attention on something else. It is impossible to banish a man from your memory if you are emotional or sitting on the couch with a bowl of ice. But if you fully focus your attention on sports, it is a lot easier.
• You get a nice appearance from sports, even if you don’t do it too hard. You remove the tension from your body and thereby make a more relaxed and positive impression.
• Depending on the sport you do, you can burn fat or get more beautiful shapes. And that is always a bonus.
• Did I mention that exercising has many positive effects on your mood? It is the only method, besides medication, that helps people who are depressed recover.

Whether you are already completely comfortable in your skin or just not yet, tip 4 helps you further:

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Tip 4: Make your social connections stronger

In order for you to become the woman again when he met you, and to make him miss you, it is important that you focus on your social life.

In times of heartbreak, chances are you feel lonely.

It is then almost impossible to keep it positive. And suppose he wants to give you a chance. Then he will soon find out that you are not nearly as cozy as before.

So in case, he starts to miss you:

• Strengthen ties with your family. Maybe you haven’t seen your grandma in three weeks. Did you know that family is one of the decisive factors in people’s happiness over their entire life course?
• Spend time with friends. Both the kind that gives you emotional support, as well as the friends who want to distract you and take them out.
• Flirt with men. There’s nothing wrong with sniffing around a bit, even if you’d like to get it back and make it start too long for you. 

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Tip 5: Do not try to convince him

You miss him. I find that very understandable.

You wonder, ” Is he going to miss me? When? I understand that too.

And you would like him to miss you as much as you miss him.

But do you want to promise me one thing?

Don’t you want to try to convince him? Not even in a moment of weakness?

Because whether it works or not …

… You always have a big problem.

Pay attention:

If you try to convince a man to miss you, chances are he won’t go along with it.

But there is also a small chance that he will go along with it. And then you have a bigger problem if possible.

“What happens if you convince him.”

At such a moment, he has not made the choice to be with you because he is in love with you again. He’s doing it because you convinced him it’s the right decision … or out of pity (if you’ve chosen the emotional route).

So this does not come from himself at all.

And he will never really be happy this way.

Maybe your relationship will last another six months. Maybe longer or shorter. But after that, it will go out like a night candle. And you are back to square one.

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Tip 6: Give your ex the chance to miss you, cut him off he will miss you

He can only miss you when you have no contact with him at all.

I always advise those who are having a hard time to distance themselves. Also, couples that are doing well, by the way.

Missing that feeling of each other is a much stronger binder than being around each other 24/7.

I know how scary this is.

Letting go of someone hoping to get back to you feels like a huge risk.

But, researches show that men, like women, don’t remain untouched if you break all contact with them.

And do you know what it is?

It is the only way it can work.

For example for the following reason:

It is quite common for couples to break up for a few weeks.

One person doubts the relationship and breaks up. After three weeks he thinks, ” What have I done? And he calls you to make it right.

This happens regularly, and you may have done it yourself.

Don’t be that girl.

What hardly happens is that he breaks up…

… and the woman sends him text messages every day to please come back …

… Or standing on his doorstep and sticking sweet notes on the window…

… And so on and so on.

Doing this will ruin every chance there is. You show him that you don’t respect no. And that will hurt his ego.

This is disastrous since inflating his ego is just one of the ways to make a man fall in love with you.

But that’s not all:

 

As a result, he will never reconsider his decision. And that it will get over it after a few weeks.

Simple right?

If you want a chance for him to come back to you …

… then make sure that he is no longer in your life.

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Tip 7: Make him a little jealous.

When do you think your ex gets a little jealous?

Believe me … If he sees you posting a photo with another man on Facebook while he misses you …

… then it becomes white hot.

This is a bonus tip, which I recommend you use with scarcity.

But it does not hurt to subtly let us know that you are back on the market.

He will realize the consequences of his actions. And he will feel that you are out of his life.

And take it from me …

… If he misses you even a bit, he will keep an eye on your Facebook.

By the way, here is another video with some other tricks you can use. The video was shot some time ago, but very nicely sums up this blog:

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Tip 8: Use social media strategically

I indicated above that you can make him a little jealous. For example, by posting a photo with you and another man on Facebook.

Of course, you should not exaggerate this. If you change your profile picture to a picture with another guy and change your relationship status to ” busy – with that new guy “, that’s way too much.

A simple photo on your timeline with a semi-friendly look is enough.

What you should not do is continuously post on social media. Especially if you didn’t while you were in the relationship. Because the more often he reads your messages, the less he will miss you.

By keeping him informed about what is going on in your life, he feels that he is still in contact with you. But when he doesn’t see any sign of life (except maybe that enviable photo), he starts to wonder what the hell you’re doing.

He wants to know the best about it. And may think:

Wow, I don’t know how the break-up will affect her. Let me inquire.

He broke up and now he has to sit on the blisters. I know this is difficult for you, but this is the way to get it back later.

That he contacts you is the first step. It shows that he is still interested in you. Now it is a matter of finding out what that interest is exactly.

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Tip 9: Fix the problem

Did he break up because he no longer felt good in the relationship? Or that he wanted something different with his life?

In both cases, you need to take a critical look at what you can do about the situation.

Imagine if he thought he saw you insufficiently.

You can do your best to get it back. But he will never do that if he cannot see you more often. Even if you get together again, the relationship will not last long.

If this is because he is very busy himself, he does not have his priorities listed. If you become more flexible, the problem will not necessarily be solved because it just doesn’t matter to you.

But if you were the person with a full schedule, you can choose to make more time for him. So that you can see each other more often and at better times.

Of course, you are not trying to convince him that the problem has now been solved. It doesn’t work whether you try it rationally or emotionally.

No, your goal is to make him wild with desire.

Because he misses you and realizes how sad it is that you are apart.

If you come sailing around the corner with ” and I can see you more often too “, you will see that the choice to come back to you is made very quickly.

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Tip 10: Will this man make you happy?

Just an interlude.

You’re putting a lot of effort into a man now. But is he the person you want to grow old with?

I know you’re very sad because it’s over. But in such a case your emotions take a walk with you. 

If you look very rationally at how your time was together.

• Were you happy most of the time?
• Or was it mainly stress and misery?
• Could you do what you wanted?
• Or did he actually stop you from achieving your goals?

If you answered ” no, no, and no ” to the last three questions and you answered the first ” he’s the most important person ever “, then you know it’s good to try.

But if not, stop what you’re doing. Even if you miss him. Even if you can’t imagine a life without him. Even though you think you will never get out of this deep valley without him.

The truth is, he will never make you happy.

Trying again will not only cost you your time but also your rest.

Only if you are sure that he is the one is it wise to try it.

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Tip 11: Use your attraction

Do you know how men fall in love? 

It has a lot to do with attraction. A man simply cannot fall in love if he doesn’t find you attractive. He can like you very much and often want to go out with you.

If he doesn’t feel that attraction, a relationship is doomed to failure.

And it is very crazy. But 9 out of 10 men will consider a relationship with you again based on that attraction. And not initially concerned with the actual reason it went out.

A smart man who still has feelings for you would ask: “ Hey, are you less busy now? Or do you still work 15 hours a day? ”

But it does not work like that.

If he still has feelings for you and you walk past him in your most beautiful outfit, he almost explodes with desire.

He can’t help it. Even though he knows it is not good for him. He must be very strong to not go with you.

That’s why I want you to take another look at what men find attractive in a woman. In a relationship, men want peace, a clear role, respect, and good sex. 

Or even easier:

Become the woman he fell in love with again.

In the course of the relationship, both of you have changed. You become more used to each other and are less concerned with seducing the other.

You have to bring that back. Learn your bad habits and make sure you have everything under control before contacting him.

I’m sure I don’t have to explain how you seek subtle contact with him. Only do this if he has already polled a few times or has given you attention. And at such a moment, focus on showing him how attractive you are.

And then:

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Tip 12: Find out where it is

When you have new contact with him and you show your most attractive side, one thing is very important.

Is it a situation where he never, ever wants to return to you, no matter how attractive you are?

There will be situations where you cannot solve the problem.

Or that he’s just done with it.

If this is the case and you seduce him, you will only go to bed a few times and then it is over. Or he uses you for sex while your heart breaks into a thousand pieces.

You shouldn’t do that to yourself. That is why you have to connect (repeated) sex with your ex to the consequence that you are back together. Otherwise, you will make it much too cheap for him to sleep with you and he will lose his appeal.

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But before you even consider doing this:

Check if he would like to return to you in an ideal world. Don’t listen to what he says, but watch how he behaves. 

Cut Him Off He Will Miss You by Theresa Alice