In this blog, you will learn four ways you can use on how to seduce a man.

Why men see some women as “friends” and not fall in love with them.
23 simple and unobtrusive seduction tips to seduce men
How you can – with the help of eye contact – seduce a man without saying anything to him or touching him
How some women unknowingly deter men and how you can prevent this
And much, much more …

How to Seduce Men

For some women, flirting seems second nature. Perhaps you know such a woman who effortlessly wraps every man around her finger.

It is not difficult to seduce a man when you understand how it works.

Every man likes to seduce and be seduced.

Yet he will not make wild advances to every woman. It is rather risky. Before you know it, he makes a wrong move and is seen as “scary” or intrusive.

That is why it can sometimes be useful to lend him a hand, by seducing him instead of you.

Important Elements on How to seduce a man

These are the four important elements that you can use to seduce a man.

With touches
Through eye contact
With your sexuality
By being approachable

Women who do these things well can seduce and seduce men in an inconspicuous way .

Despite the great talk of men that they themselves want to be the hunter, men love to be seduced. As long as it happens in an inconspicuous and subtle way.

With the seduction tips I give you here you can seduce a man without him noticing that you seduce him. Afterward, he will swear he has seduced you instead of the other way around.

But you and I know better.

4 Methods on How to Seduce Men

Method 1: seduce men with touches

Men are very sensitive to touch. There is almost nothing that excites us faster. When they are in a room and you touch them, you immediately get all the attention. Even if you are in a room where there are a lot of other women.

… And I know it can be a bit scary to touch a man.

But when you get a bit of skill in this, this is your secret weapon to seduce a man.

Why?

Here are three reasons why you want to touch it:

Touching is a good way to seduce a man.
It immediately makes them aware of your sexuality and even a small touch can excite them.
It sets the tone.
Touching makes it clear that you are more than just friends.
You can still have such a great bond, without physical touch you will remain friends.
Prof. Burgoon has done a study in 1992 that shows that you are nicer and more attractive when you touch someone.

Have I convinced you? I hope so. Then I have some tips here to seduce him with touch.

seduction tip # 1 Touch him on his upper arm while talking to him
Touching the upper arm creates an intimate atmosphere. Men are also seen as more intimately as a pat on the shoulder or a handshake. Yet they are fairly unremarkable. You can best touch it at a high point of the conversation. For example when he is joking.

seduction tip # 2 Remove something about his clothes
A good way to touch him without emphasizing it is to fashion something about his clothes. Remove an imaginary fluff from his clothes or dress up his collar or shirt.

The nice thing about this way is that you automatically get an atmosphere “as if you are a couple”. Normally only people do this with whom he is very close.

Yet it seems completely innocent because you have an excuse to touch it and it doesn’t just suddenly happen.

seduction tip # 3 Whisper something in his ear
This is also an easy way to touch it subtly. Put your hand on his back while you whisper something in his ear. Make sure you breathe out while you do it. The feeling of your breathing in his neck will excite him. If you have a lot of guts, you can score bonus points by just touching his ear with your lips.

seduction tip # 4 Place your hand subtly on its chest when you have to laugh
When you have to laugh at something he says, subtly put your hand on his chest. This touch makes him feel masculine. You can make it look like you were just shooting too far with your hand gesture.

seduction tip # 5 Give him a playful stump
When he makes a teasing or a little wrong remark, give him a little punch. Respond almost indignantly while you do it. Because it is a playful gesture, it will look much more casual.

seduction tip # 6 Ask him what he thinks of your perfume
It is a classic seduction trick for women, but with a reason. Ask him what he thinks of your perfume and let him smell it. Now you not only make him excited with your scent, but you can also immediately put your hand on his back as he gets closer.

seduction tip # 7 Stroke his hand
Suppose you are on a date with a man but you don’t know if he likes you. Then try the following:

If he puts his hand on the table, you touch his hand “by accident”. Make it a small but subtle caress.

Is he pulling his hand away? Then he is not interested. In that case, you can pretend it happened by accident. If he leaves the hand there, stroke him a little longer. This light caress can really excite a man.

By the way, don’t forget that men are often afraid of touching you too much. With this small caress, you give him the green light to touch you more and he will show more initiative.

seduction tip # 8 Do not sit opposite him
When you go to a restaurant or cafe with him, make sure you never sit opposite each other. When there is a table between you it is almost impossible to touch each other.

Moreover, people associate sitting opposite each other with job interviews and negotiations and that is not really the atmosphere that you go for.

Method 2: seduce men with eye contact

Eye contact is a very good way to build up tension in a man. Flirting with eye contact is super easy and safe. Even when we are not interested in someone, we still find eye contact attractive.

I mean, who doesn’t like to flirt with someone from a distance? Even if you don’t intend to date that person.

It is a good way to on how to seduce men and make you interested without having to say a word and without being rejected.

Here are some tips for seducing men with eye contact:

seduction tip # 9 Make eye contact and then break it again
Initially stare casually at him, until he gives you attention. It may take a while, but wait until he looks back at you and then look away slowly. Do not look away very quickly as if you were caught, but take it easy. Do not keep staring at him for too long, that will quickly become scary.

seduction tip # 10 Laugh while looking at him
Don’t make it very serious or try not to be overly sultry, but give him a little smile. This makes you look much warmer and more attractive and keeps it airy.

seduction tip # 11 Three times is the law
Don’t assume that men get it the first time. We may think it is a coincidence or that you are looking at someone behind us. If you have ever had a relationship with a man, you know how bad we men are in interpreting hints. Try it at least three times in a row.

seduction tip # 12 Don’t wink
Do people still do this? If so, do not go overly winking. You do not look attractive and it is more likely that he will laugh and make you look crazy.

seduction tip # 13 If you break eye contact, break it down
When someone breaks up eye contact, our body unconsciously interprets this as contempt. So you look unfriendly. When you look away to the side, we see this as a sign of boredom or disinterest. That is also not the signal you want to give.

When you break the eye contact you do this down. This is a sign of respect and appreciation. This makes the man feel safer and more confident and he will come to you faster.

Method 3: seduce men by making them aware of your sexuality
Have you ever had one of these two things?

A man sees you more like a sister than as a woman?
Does a man treat you like one of his friends?

If you’ve ever experienced one of those things, it’s not because a man doesn’t like you. But men sometimes don’t see you as a sexual being at all.

This happens especially with women that men often see in their daily lives, for example, colleagues or neighbors. It simply never occurred to them to date you. This is because they are simply not aware of your sexuality.

If you can ensure that a man is going to see you like that, then he can switch overnight.

Here are some tips to help you become part of his sexual fantasies.

seduction tip # 14: Play with something when you talk to him
There is nothing more tempting than a woman who caresses something while talking to a man. So caress the wine glass that you are holding, a chain, a pack of cigarettes or just your old-fashioned hair. When he sees you caressing something, he can’t help you imagine what it would be like if you caressed him.

seduction tip # 15 Decent your clothes
Look down while you fashion a piece of clothing. Because you bring the attention of the conversation to your clothing, he will unconsciously follow your eyes and his attention will be focused on your body. You can, of course, score extra bonus points by aligning your neckline.

Don’t do this in an exaggerated or ordinary way, but nonchalantly and without you noticing it looks. He wants to feel that you do not realize that he is looking at you.

seduction tip # 16 Stand up straight
If you stand upright then the following happens:

Breasts appear larger
our stomach seems flatter
Your neck looks longer (many people don’t know this, but a bared neck can be very attractive to men)

So make sure you stand up straight when you are talking to him. It will at the same time unconsciously bring its attention to your breasts. If you have extra guts, it doesn’t hurt to stretch out occasionally in his presence.

seduction tip # 17 Occasionally have “bad planning”
If he occasionally visits you, make sure that you are ready “just too late”. Open the door in a tiny towel and apologize that you are not ready yet. Then quickly walk away to change.

Believe me, he will remember this moment when he sees you again.

seduction tip # 18 Dance with him
Most men love a dancing woman. Your moving hips can bring all kinds of images to him. If there is an opportunity to dance with him, take it immediately.

He can’t help but fantasize when you make eye contact with him while moving your hips. Moreover, dancing is always a good excuse to touch him extra.

seduction tip # 19 Drink alcohol with him
This trick is as old as the road to Rome. If you want to bring up a man’s instincts with a man, a bottle of wine can do wonders. It causes him to become “more animal-like” in his behavior and it removes his inhibitions.

Do you object to tempting a man with alcohol? I understand that very well. Just realize that more than half of all relationships were created by a drunken evening.

Method 4: Adorn men by coming across as approachable

The psychology of flirting is very important. Much more important than most people think.

Women often think that men rely on the most beautiful, youngest women. But the practice is different.

Dr. Monica Moore, a psychologist at Webster University in St. Louis who did dozens of investigations into the flirtation of people, said the following about this:

It’s not the most physically appealing people who get approached, but the ones who signal their availability and confidence through basic flirting techniques like eye contact and smiles.

What does this mean? This simply means that men go for women who seem available. The reason for this is very simple:

He is just as scared as you are to be rejected. Moreover, he unconsciously chooses a partner that he could get.

That is why it is so important that you appear approachable to him.

Make the threshold to approach you as small as possible. The biggest mistake many women make is that they appear unapproachable. When a man starts a conversation with her, she often has the tendency to play “hard to get” out of uncertainty.

Your reason for reacting slightly coolly can be anything. Sometimes it’s to impress your girlfriends, other times it’s because you like a man to do his best for you. But that’s how you scare men away.

Every study shows that men are much more attracted to a woman who shows interest.

seduction tip # 20 Give him a warm welcome as he approaches you
He has already had to gather a lot of courage to talk to you and he is terrified that you react unkindly. If he comes to you, give him a warm welcome:

Smile at him, shake his hand when he introduces himself and turn your body briefly in his direction to show that he has your attention.

This prevents him from standing with his friends again three minutes later and saying: “what an ice rabbit that was”.

seduction tip # 21 Give him an excuse to talk to you
Men are much more likely to have a conversation with you if they have an excuse to talk to you.

So yes, accidentally mess with your drink on him, accidentally bump into him or simply ask him for advice. A friend of mine once met her boyfriend by asking him for advice about the best sandwich in the Subway.

seduction tip # 22 Shows skin
Men are biologically programmed to feel attracted to bare skin. A study by the University of Leeds shows that a woman is most attractive when she shows around 40% in bare skin.

When a woman is a blotter than that, she is no longer attractive, but around 40% she seems approachable and available.

seduction tip # 23 Laugh a lot
Did you know that people who smile seem more friendly, attractive and smarter?

If you didn’t know that yet, you know now.

If you smile a lot, a man will unconsciously think that you are a nice person. A smile is the human version of the “white flag”.

This makes a man feel safer to approach you.

These are four very important ways on how to seduce men.