Signs He is Friendzoning You
It’s likely that your friends are making fun of you for being friend-zoned, but you have no idea what they’re referring to. You have only one piece of information, which is that you have relayed to them how the guy you like appears to be unaware of your feelings for him.
So, what exactly does it mean to be in the friend zone?
The term “friend zone” describes the situation in which you have nothing more than a platonic relationship with the person you have feelings for. What this means is that you want to take your friendship to the next level by dating each other, but your friend prefers to keep things platonic.
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Signs He is Friendzoning You
Check out the following indications to see if you have been friend zoned to determine for sure if this has happened to you:
1. He Has Relationships With Other People.
If he is flirting and/or dating other people but not with you, it is likely another sign that he only sees you as a friend.
It’s possible that he’s trying to deny his feelings for you while simultaneously harboring a desire to date you. It is not impossible. However, you will need to put it all together piece by piece.
Because in the vast majority of situations, the reason he is not dating you is that he does not find you romantically attractive or does not believe that you would find him attractive. Feel very sad. I know. Having to deal with the disappointment of being rejected when all you want is for him to like YOU can be a real kick in the gut.
2. He Never Makes Any Attempts to Flirt with You.
If he only thinks of you as a friend, he will, as you might expect, treat you in the same manner as he would any other friend. This indicates that there is to be no flirting, no boundary crossing, and no temptation of any kind either.
It’s clear that he has feelings for you, but not in that way. As a result, he won’t behave in that manner.
3. You Rarely Communicate Outside of Group Chats.
One of the most obvious signs that someone likes you via text is when they actively seek out the opportunity to communicate with you.
If he only considers you to be a friend, the chances are slim that you will ever do anything together outside of the company of a larger group. Similarly, you’ll find that the majority of your communications take place within a single Group Chat and that they are lighthearted in nature rather than deep and meaningful exchanges of details.
4. He Has Conversations With You Regarding Other People.
If he is extremely forthcoming about his romantic relationships, it is a KEY indication that he only considers you a friend of his.
He does not say this to test your reaction or to see if you will become jealous of him. He doesn’t try to hide anything and treats you like “one of the fellas” when he talks to you.
He doesn’t even give it a second thought. If he only considers you a friend, he won’t think twice about telling you about a new person on the scene or some “good gossip.”
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5. He refers to you as his “Mate”.
Now, don’t we all just adore a cute pet name? However, if a guy sees you as nothing more than a friend, you won’t get any “babe” or “sweetheart” references from him. You are more likely to be referred to as “mate” or “dude,” or your last name may be used. Yes, it’s not exactly heartwarming and it’s not what you were hoping to hear.
6. He Rarely Sends Messages.
Let’s pretend for a moment that the two of you are extremely close. If this is the case, then you probably talk to each other in private and see each other in private as well.
However, you won’t be texting him constantly, and if you have feelings for him but he doesn’t have feelings for you, you’ll probably find that you’re the one texting him first the majority of the time and starting the majority of the conversation. This is especially true if you have feelings for him but he doesn’t have feelings for you.
To illustrate, you communicate with friends less frequently than you do with potential romantic interests. Naturally. If you want to find out if he only considers you a friend, you should ask yourself the following questions:
Is he treating me as a friend or is he treating me as something more than that?
Would we act like this if we were just friends with each other?
Is he trying harder to impress me?
Be truthful and sincere with yourself. Look not at what you want to see but at what is actually taking place. Avoid letting your imagination run wild.
7. He Gets Under Your Skin.
Next, we have the fact that he will most likely tease you and wind you up quite a bit, particularly if that is in his character. He will likely joke around and tease you.
Teasing as a form of flirtation is a thing, YES! But if he just considers you a friend, his teasing is more akin to a big brother’s treatment of a younger sibling. This is a completely different level.
Furthermore, you’ll observe that there is no chemistry-fueled eye contact to accompany it. He is not doing this with any malicious intent, but neither does he have any romantic interest in you either.
8. He’s too at ease with you.
So, if he’s way too at ease when he’s around you… You’re probably thinking that if he’s easygoing, that’s a good thing. If he is able to just be himself?
Yes, without a doubt. However, there must be some sort of limit.
For instance, if he burps or farts in front of you without any embarrassment), this is a sign that he is too comfortable around you and just sees you as a friend.
In a similar vein, you might discover that he doesn’t dress up when he’s around you. In terms of his appearance, he doesn’t put in much effort.
Do you find that he is just as relaxed around you as he is around everyone else? If this is the case, it indicates that there is a lack of care. Because he considers you to be nothing more than a friend, he is not concerned with making a good impression on you.
9. His Disengagement.
If, when you are together, he can be pretty disconnected, this is another significant indicator that he only sees you as a friend of his. You aren’t in a relationship, and you aren’t “hanging out.”
If he had romantic feelings for you, he would make the most of the time he spent with you by getting to know you better and strengthening the connection that the two of you share.
That’s why it’s not a good sign if he’s constantly checking his phone while he’s with you, whether he’s on social media or just replying to messages. He seems to be preoccupied with something or someone else at the moment. In his mind, they’re more important.
As was discussed earlier, he feels at ease in your company and thinks of you as a friend. Taking it easy and diverting your attention elsewhere in another person’s company is normal.
The fact that he isn’t interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you is further evidence that he doesn’t consider you to be anything more than a friend.
10. He Will Not Be Afraid To Reveal The Whole Truth To You.
As we speed through the evidence that he no longer considers you to be his romantic interest, it is time to move on to the next significant clue. As you can see, we are aware that you have reached that level of friendship. His concern for you is something we can attest to. On the other hand, if it’s as a friend, you’re more likely to hear truths that will knock you off your feet.
He isn’t trying to convince you of anything, and he doesn’t seem to be giving much thought to what he’s saying. And so he can say more things that may seem harsh but are true… And in most cases, it is for your own good.
For example, if he thinks you’re acting a little crazy and need to straighten your life out, he won’t hold back from telling you. If you’re being flaky and backing out of plans, he’ll tell you straight.
He is not being rude in any way. He means well; he’s just trying to be helpful. But if he thought of you as more than just a friend, he would avoid doing anything that might make you angry or upset.
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